Me & my situations :)
The story
Hi, to everyone reading this!
I have been in a relationship for the past few years, right now I'm thinking do I know my man well enough! Idk something is off maybe with me of him. So this thing has been happening for quite a while, I'm a hopelessly romantic type of person, I just love too deep from caring to taking responsibility for the person I love. I'm a very shy kind and I don't like going outside often and I definitely don't like to go anywhere alone. So at the start of the relationship my man also accompanies me wherever I go shopping and do my normal errands, but now he just doesn't like to do it I guess. When I ask him to take me to buy something he just refuses or if I go alone he doesn't like it either, and if he somehow magically come with me he just gets irritated with every little thing I do or say. I just can't figure him out! If we go into more deep I have been doing everything for him like cooking his fav meal, making him laugh, solving his money problems and even solving his family issues. I never said NO to any of his requests I'm always there for him. I love him, but when I need him he is just not there for me. Today I asked him why are you not here when I need emotional support and he said "I just can't" that he is not that emotional type of person.
Now I'm stuck here don't know what to do or think. I would appreciate any suggestions to tackle this type of situation. Feel free to scold me :)
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hello there, it seems you're navigating a complex and emotionally challenging situation; relationships can indeed be intricate and often require balance and understanding from both parties. your capacity to care deeply and invest in the relationship is commendable, but it's important for this to be mutual, with both partners supporting one another's needs. perhaps it might be beneficial to have an open dialogue about each other's expectations in the relationship; expressing your feelings clearly yet compassionately could encourage him to reflect on his own actions. remember, maintaining your own emotional well-being is as crucial as nurturing the relationship itself🌟