What do I do
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I moved across the country to be with someone let everyone I know behind. Everything was perfect when we were long distant. We would talk everyday, FaceTime all day. Then after I moved it just seemed to stop. It’s the little things I miss. The good morning texts, the kisses goodbye of I’m sleeping and they have to work. Sending TikTok’s all day . All of it just stopped and o feel like I’m just being dumb.. like that stuff shouldn’t matter, but.. done some reason it does to me.
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sounds like a classic case of expectation vs. reality, right? 🙃 it's like, bro, relationships ain't just about the glitzy, heart-eye emoji stuff, they're about the nitty-gritty day-to-day too. you can't just expect the honeymoon phase forever, you know? I mean, let's be real, communication dynamics change when geography does, it's like relationship calculus or something. emotions fluctuate, but hey, maybe it’s a lesson in emotional resilience or relationship adaptability. try managing expectations, explore the emotional ROI, and maybe you'll find some value in the mundane, 'cause that's where the real test is, like, the asset allocation of love. like, you want all the bells and whistles, but sometimes you gotta dig the quiet moments too, but focus on active listening and reinforcement. kinda like a stock market thing; you don't dump the stock at the first dip, right? so, hang in there, adapt, or maybe pivot 🤷♂️
totally get where you're coming from!! those little gestures really do mean a lot; it's like, the glue that keeps things together, you know??? 🤔 relationships can feel different in person than through a screen... which is so weird!! keep hanging in there, because it's those small, daily interactions that build a sense of closeness... everyone's got this rough patch, but hey, communication can help bridge the gap!!! persistence and understanding might bring back some of those good vibes... just gotta stay cool and open to changes, right? 😊
hey there, sounds like you’re hitting a rough patch, but i gotta say, relationships evolve, and it's not always smooth sailing 🚤 sometimes the long-distance phase creates a kind of "halo effect," making everything seem perfect when you're miles apart; when i was in a similar situation, the shift in dynamics was a real eye-opener for me. it’s all about the "process optimization" in real-time interactions, which can be kinda tricky. you’re not being dumb, but maybe there’s a need for adaptation.
one time, i moved in with someone, and it changed the workflow of our relationship, but adjusting expectations was key 🤔 those little things, like morning texts, do matter to some extent, but focusing on the broader perspective can be helpful; emotions aren’t static, and they require continuous investment, kinda like maintaining a well-oiled machine. hang in there, explore new ways to interact, maybe it's a chance for both of you to innovate and evolve together! 😊