family drama AHHHH
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I live with my mother in law and brother in law. My mother in law has always been fake ,two face . plays nice in my face but talk sh*t about me to her other son who is about be 21 with two kids no job or car doesn't take care of either one financially . They lost their rights to the first kid due to gf being on drugs. They did not care or even try to fight for their parental rights DHS got involved she couldn't live in the house because they thought she was dangerous around the kid. Baby was in NICU for a week either of them went to visit him it was just my mother in law who obviously adopted him couple months later . Even though she could not be around the child my mother in law still let her stay to be with the kid . Im not sure I think my mother in law thought maybe his son would hate her if she did not let her stay or resent her some how she thought both of them would become responsible for their kid even though mom was the actual guardian. living with them was interesting my brother in-law started some drama about me copying her . we wore similar things . I couldn't wear anything similar to her because they would talk sh*t . I couldn't even be barefoot wear bracelet's wear any clothing brand with out them saying I was copying her obviously my mother in law sided with him . I couldn't leave the room without them eyeing me down to find something to talk about . then nexts they stated saying I was going get pregnant because she was pregnant before . it was so childish it was really hard living with them it felt like three against one . I told my husband everything at first he thought it was all in my head . He started to notice things to . we eventually moved out months past and I got pregnant goddddd that the cherry on top . I guess that had confirm I was in fact copying her and trying to be like her . even though me and husband were responsible for our little one we basically never asked for help we both have jobs our own cars I think about it now I think the brother has always been jealous his mother still enables his behaviors even though his gf and him are not together or even living here they still say I am copying her when I haven't seen her for almost a year
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sounds like you were caught in a pretty toxic environment, huh?? sadly, some families operate on drama and gossip as if it’s their lifeline. your mother-in-law's behavior really seems to be enabling your brother-in-law rather than helping him become responsible; she's letting the drama fester instead of dealing with problems directly. good on you and your husband for moving out, that must have been such a relief! it's mind-boggling how people can jump to wild conclusions just because of surface-level similarities, but hey, maybe they're projecting their own insecurities onto you.... just keep doing what you're doing! you've built a solid life for yourselves despite all the negativity around you.