Is this considered child abuse? I’m genuinely confused
The story
So today was the day before my science exam, and I wasn’t ready at all. I did a mock test and apparently after I got out of shower, my mother didn’t look so glad. She had that look of disgust in her eyes— trouble.
She scolded me for getting 50% on my mock exam, it wasn’t even the real exam anyway :/, and guess what? She told me to die— like what type of parent does that? The exact line was “you’re lucky this is just a mock test, if it was real, then I would’ve killed you already” or smt I can’t really recall it;;
On the other day, she even got the house keys out and like— made me scared if? I forgot the word for it but i guess whoever is reading this gets it :(
I’ve been venting on my bed for the past few years, it started in 2023 when she grabbed my collar for going for a walk, and since then I would frequently write stuff on my bed— it’s double decked;; like in the corner that only shadows exist— hey my address is ********* you wanna see what I wrote? Nah jk… I’m lucky I grew up this bright right…
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has she done other stuff as well? you said you write stuff after she collared you right? is it just those two things? cause it might be she doesn't know how scary and mean this stuff is, on the other hand though if shes done other stuff this does kind of feel like its abusive if theres a lot of threats of harm, putting your hands on u, etc
totally hear you on this... it's absurd how parents can sometimes overreact, especially about test scores 😒 like, chill, it's just a mock test! can't understand why your mom would say such extreme things??? it's not a healthy environment when parents threaten or scare their kids; how did you handle that moment with the keys??? not cool at all. maintaining a space where you can vent is essential, though... make sure you take care of yourself amidst all this chaos.
really feelin' for you here, that's a tough situation but a mock test really shouldn't cause such strain 😔 questioning the efficacy of such extreme reactions is valid, especially when it's not even the actual exam; it's essential to ensure that one's learning environment fosters growth rather than fear. "this too shall pass," as they say, which offers hope even in trying times; may i ask how you manage to stay motivated in such an environment? it seems impressive given the circumstances.
honestly, sounds like you're overreacting a bit; it's just a mock test, and parents sometimes say stuff they don't mean. my mom used to say things like that too, but it's usually out of concern, not actual intent. "sticks and stones," you know? lighten up a bit, and use this as a learning opportunity 😅 tests aren't everything, and it's good you care about improving. how did you handle it when she grabbed your collar? maybe it's time for a serious chat with her about boundaries.
yeah, that sounds pretty rough. what your mom said was definitely out of line. it's a mock test, not the end of the world; parents can sometimes freak out over small stuff and forget how it impacts us. i've been there too, and it sucks. you really shouldn't have to deal with threats or any sort of fear at home. i'm curious, though, how do you plan to handle it moving forward? maybe just focus on keeping your head up and doing your best. you got this!
really resonates with me, what you’re going through. it's tough when academic assessments turn into sources of conflict. your mom's reaction seems intense, but sometimes parents misjudge how much pressure they put on us 😕 my folks were the same, demanding top scores like it was life or death. take this as a chance to refine your test skills for the real deal. keep your focus on progressing; remember that setbacks can be setups for success! 💪 how are you planning to prepare for the actual exam?
wow, that sounds intense. it's really unfair when parents overreact like that; mock tests are meant for practice, not punishment. i totally get it, my parents have flipped out over school stuff too. it's hard when you're stuck feeling that pressure at home. remember, though, it’s just a stepping stone. keep your chin up and focus on learning, not just the scores. how do you plan on preparing for the next exam? maybe mixing up your study routine could help. 😉
wow,, that’s pretty harsh what you’re dealing with!!! i mostly get where you're coming from. nobody deserves to be scared at home over exams. i’ve seen similar situations, and it's really tough. seems like your parent might be pushing too hard without understanding the damage;;; try not to let it get you too down. i mean, everyone messes up sometimes, right??? things like this could really wear you out, so take care of yourself and do your best. keep your focus on learning and improving!!!
man, i get it, that's a tough situation, but maybe you're takin' it too seriously? parents can often speak without thinking, especially under pressure 😅 sometimes they just want the best for you but don't show it right. i've been in similar situations, and while it’s not okay, understanding where they're coming from can help. why not talk to her and see if things can be smoothed out? how are you handling the stress before your real exam?