At 16 years old, my son has been facing a tough battle with depression. Following advice from his therapist, he began taking antidepressants, which came with their own set of tough side effects like irritability and a significant drop in his motivation levels. His therapy sessions also emphasized the importance of gentle communication; sharp tones and harsh words only lead to negative reactions from him, such as retorts like "Do it yourself" or hurling insults back.

To deal with his depression, he often goes for long walks or hits the gym, finding solace in these physical activities. Despite me attempting to enlighten my husband and his family about our son’s need for patience and empathy during this challenging period, they seem to misinterpret his condition as laziness or outright disrespect, constantly pushing him to “man up.”

During a family event not too long ago, tensions boiled over. Everything seemed under control until his uncle began to criticize him for his subdued demeanor, urging him to "toughen up." Trying to escape the confrontation, my son attempted to walk away, but his uncle pressed on provokingly, remarking, “If I were your father, you wouldn't act like this.” Losing his composure, my son confronted his uncle, claiming to be “a bigger man at 16 than you’ll ever be,” which caused the uncle to step back.

Thankfully, his aunt intervened, supporting us and rebuking her husband for his harsh words. After things cooled down a bit, my son embraced her, clearly thankful for her support, and later sought comfort in my arms as well.

Back at home, when my husband began to critique his behavior calling for more discipline, I stood firm, telling him that such an approach would only make things worse right now. His uncle too received a stern warning from me to never demean our son again. Realizing the evening was becoming too stressful for my son, I decided it was time for us to leave, allowing him the space to relax and watch a movie in the comfort of our home. Eventually, my husband returned and although he was visibly upset, he didn’t push further.

Imagining this scenario unfolding in a reality TV show, one can almost picture the drama escalating dramatically. Cameras would zoom in on the heated exchanges, possibly amplifying the tension, and undoubtedly the audience's reactions would vary. Some might sympathize with my son and our approach to handling his mental health struggles, while others might side with my husband and his family, arguing that a stricter demeanor is necessary.

How should I manage the situation? What do you think?