everyone so mean to me
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lately I've been like really upset because it seems like everyone around me my friends family basically have just been so harsh with their words it's almost like I can't say a single thing without someone jumping down my throat. I'm being super sensitive lately don't get me wrong sometimes I feel like maybe it's just me. But there have been situations where their comments were totally uncalled for and it makes no sense to me! Like take yesterday for example, I was talking about this movie that I absolutely loved (you know 'cause who doesn't love a good flick?) and right away boom my cousin's all "that movie's trash" outta nowhere! Instead of getting into it, kinda made like a joke back but it still stung more than I'd care to admit. It's small things, tiny remarks but they've started piling up one on the other and now it's weighing on my mind way too much.
I guess part of me wonders if I've changed in some way? or maybe they have; people grow right? Sometimes not in the same direction sadly. Was chatting with an old school friend last weekend and when I mentioned this situation they're all calm said "might be them not you buddy" which gave me some comfort but then BAM another snarky comment from my brother today hits me hard again! I'm polite, I don't get into fights easily most times happy to sit down talk things through you know what i mean? So what's the deal here am I missing something or is the world just extra grumpy right now?! Idk trying to stay positive here look on the bright side if that's even still possible honestly kinda need a hug; but hey chin up keep smiling amirite?
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it sounds exhausting dealing with that kind of negativity all the time. maybe they're going through their own stuff and taking it out in harsh ways without realizing how it's affecting you? i've noticed people often aren't aware of how sharp they're being until someone points it out. i remember a period when my siblings were snippy, turned out they were stressed about different things. could be worth having a calm chat, clearing the air without confrontation. anyway, don't let 'em drag down your love for movies or anything else you enjoy!
man, i totally feel ya on this one, it's like everyone around seems to have gotten more snappy lately, even at home my sibling's been throwing shade outta nowhere too 😒
ugh, right? it's like some weird universal thing going on. maybe the planets are misaligned or something. i just hope it passes soon and everyone chills out a bit.
Man, I totally get how you're feeling, because just last week I was telling my brother about this band I really dig and he called it "old people music".
Man, that sounds super frustrating 😤; it's like you're stuck in this constant feedback loop of negativity.
idk, maybe it's just me but it seriously feels like people are on edge lately and every little thing sets them off?
sounds like you're just surrounded by some really opinionated folks, huh? i mean it's totally okay to be a bit sensitive, that's just being human, ya know? 🎭 maybe there's something in the air making people more critical these days, lots going on everywhere and it affects us all in different ways; it could also just be a phase for everyone involved. change can be uncomfortable but it doesn't mean it's bad! perhaps try giving them feedback too (constructive criticism style) next time they make a snarky remark, sometimes people don’t realize their words have weight until someone points it out. keep doing you though; staying positive is a good strategy!
yo, i totally feel ya!!! everyone seems to be on edge lately like something in the air making them all snippy??! and you’re right sometimes it ain't even about us but it's hard not to take it personally when folks just can't help themselves with those rude remarks. 😑 maybe they forgot how to chill out or maybe some stress we don't know about idk but damn, a little kindness goes a long way!! try staying true to yourself man 'cause getting caught up in their negativity never helps anyway; keep being your chill self, that's what matters most 🤙
sounds exhausting dealing with constant negativity from people close to you. maybe they're just going through their own stuff and projecting it a bit. it's tough when everyone's tuning into negativity radio. could be the world is just generally more tense right now, but honestly? doesn't mean you should have to be the one absorbing all that energy like a sponge. keep your head up and remember you're not overreacting for feeling hurt by that stuff; sometimes a good flick is just a tiny escape we need 🙂
dude, that totally sucks and I can relate. reminds me of this one time when I was talking to my sister about a book I found super interesting (you know how everyone's got their own taste) and she just shut it down like "why do you even read stuff like that?" casually throwing shade without even thinking how it might hit me. what's the point really?? it's hard not to feel sensitive when all those little comments stack up; they start feeling heavier than they should. people can be extra prickly sometimes for no reason at all and it's draining trying to keep things upbeat around all that negativity!!! maybe letting 'em know how you feel could ease up some tension? sometimes people just aren't aware of their tone or words till they're called out on it... give it a shot if you're in the mood. otherwise, hang in there!
man, that sounds rough. tough to keep your cool when it feels like everyone's out to get you with their words! maybe people are just stressed and taking it out on the nearest person which unfortunately seems like it's you lately; have you thought about directly chatting with your family or friends about how these comments make you feel? sometimes bringing it up can make them realize they're being harsh without even knowing it. plus, you're right: people change and not always in sync with others. hang in there, dude! things could shift soon, who knows... 🙂
partly agree...maybe
Damn, man, that's rough. I've totally been there when everyone seems outta line and you're just caught in the crossfire. Feels like you're tiptoeing around your own space, right? Maybe it's not you changing but them being caught up in their own crap; definitely happens. You deserve to chill without being judged. Keep doing you... people will catch on eventually or move along. Keep those vibes up and forget the haters! ✌️
Maybe you're being too sensitive to casual comments from others or just reading more into them than intended? Movie preferences are subjective and people have different tastes, sure it's annoying but it's not personal. And humor is quite a peculiar thing, right? Some people joke harshly thinking it won't hurt when it actually does. Have you tried just ignoring their remarks and focusing on what makes you happy instead of waiting for their validation?
I've felt that way too before. There was a point when everyone seemed critical no matter what I did or said. It turned out that they'd been going through stressful times themselves and didn't realize how they were coming across.
r u sure its them?
what do u suggest i should do then ? i tried talking
i had simlar issues and felt pretty lost. people close to us sometimes become harsh without realizing due to stress or other factors outside of our control. talking helped open eyes for both sides.
hmm ya i ges mayb