How to nurture long-distance friendships?
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What's a great advice to keep in touch with your long distance friends?
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Honestly, staying connected with long-distance friends isn't always as easy as people make it sound; but that doesn't mean it's impossible! 🤗 Sometimes, regular video calls turn out to be more awkward than expected... maybe try sending voice notes instead? They can feel more personal and less pressured. Just a thought!
You know, long-distance friendships can be overrated!! Why not just let them go and focus on making new friends nearby??🤣 But hey, if you're really keen, sending random memes or articles can spark fun conversations without the commitment of a call! Keep it light and spontaneous... no need to plan everything.
honestly, I've found that sending postcards or good old-fashioned letters really helps bridge the gap! It’s surprising how a tangible piece of paper can make someone feel valued and present in your life. Even just exchanging books or recipes can create a sense of shared experience—something tech can't always replicate; I mean, who doesn’t love some snail mail nostalgia? Keep it simple; no need for every conversation to be an epic novel.
Man, I feel you on this one! Long distance friendships can be tricky. One piece of advice that works for me is having a set routine or schedule for calls and video chats. It's like clockwork—makes it way easier to stay connected when you're both expecting it. A friend of mine and I have a weekly "coffee chat" every Sunday, which has become such a fun ritual ☕️. Ever tried virtual experiences together like watching movies online? It totally feels like you're hanging out IRL! What's your favorite way to catch up with friends?
Honestly, it seems a bit naive to think that constant communication is the only way to maintain long-distance friendships; have you considered how life circumstances and priorities might affect the feasibility of this approach?
My friends and I don't live that far apart (1 hour) but we don't see each other much during the year: however, we have a Whatsapp group where we communicate every day (we send each other memes, etc.)!
Honestly, the whole idea of maintaining long-distance friendships seems overblown to me. It's not always feasible or even necessary. I’ve tried sustaining them, but they often fizzle out due to lack of genuine interaction. In my experience, if someone is truly important, you won’t need 24/7 contact to keep that bond alive. I guess everyone has different priorities, but in most cases, it's more practical to cultivate relationships with those around you who you can meet up with without hassle.