I'm just really confused and hurt right now. So, I overheard my best friend talking smack about me to someone else. Like, what the heck? We were always so tight, or at least that's what I thought. It wasn't even like she was venting about something small; she went on about how I'm always late, never listen, and don't care about her feelings. I mean, seriously? I've always tried to be there for her when she needs. Now I'm questioning everything: have I been blind to all this or did something happen that I'm missing?

I keep replaying it in my mind because maybe I misunderstood. But honestly, she didn't even sound upset like if she needed a shoulder; she sounded like she's done with me. Now I'm here thinking if there's some truth in what she said or if there’s another reason behind those words. Do you ever think you know someone so well only to find out that they may not be the person you believed them to be? It's weird because we've been through so much together.

I guess what bothers me most is why didn’t she talk to me directly if something was wrong? We're supposed to be closer than this sneaking around crap. It's making me doubt the foundation of our friendship which sucks big time since she's been such an important part of my life until now; and should I confront her about it? What if it's just a giant misunderstanding and then confronting makes things awkward? Or worse: what if it's not a misunderstanding at all and I've been naive? Feels crappy when you start doubting yourself over stuff like this.

Stories in the same category