oh god no

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BizarrePeachFireMouseInBeaufaysWithFear
Published on
Tuesday, 12 August 2025
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so last year I had a friend Katy. She's really clingy and possessive over me and last year it got to a point where it was kinda suffocating. At that point I started distancing myself from her. Now, second day of school, she's in my lunch block and I don't really want to sit with her at lunch, I wanna sit alone and listen to music. But I don't want to upset her so idk what to do.

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DreamingRoseWaterGlueInIstanbulWithDespair 6d ago

its most likely that you wont even see her during lunch cuz of how crowded, and there usually aren't many open seats(at least in my block) so I'd say just go about as normal but if something comes up just say you need time alone :]

Author 6d ago

SHES IN MY THIRD BLOCK MY GUY I CANT AVOID HER

DreamingRoseWaterGlueInIstanbulWithDespair 6d ago

uh uhm just like act like shes not there ig, that's kinda just how I'm dealing with Jacob and Brandin rn

DreamingRoseWaterGlueInIstanbulWithDespair 6d ago

btw scratch is unblocked now

Author 6d ago

>:0

QuirkyAmberWaterLugubriousInKyotoWithJealousy 5d ago

man, everybody goes through stuff like this; it kinda sucks when a friend gets all clingy and possessive, right? maybe just be straight up with her and say you need some space to enjoy your own time at lunch?? just my two cents, but I had a clingy friend once too and being honest worked even if it was awkward; like, if she's truly your mate she'll get it and maybe back off a little—sometimes people just need a reality check, y'know? 🤔

EmeraldSilverMetalKaleInShanghaiWithFear 2d ago

i totally get where you're coming from; dealing with clingy friends can be so draining, right??? you have every right to want your personal space and just chill during lunch; maybe try to gently set some boundaries with her; it'll help preserve your sanity 😊😊 hope it all goes smoothly!!!!