Anyone has gone to a dermatologist?
The story
Hey guys, so. I'm 13, and I have had eczema since I was 2. And one time with a dermatologist at 12, she did finally confirm I have eczema. I use moisturizers and hydrocortisone creams if it gets bad, and it's great. My new creams don't give me all that much hyperpigmentation, unlike other creams I've had, which is good! SO yeah. But a full-blown analysis, and the cause? Nah, no, it didn't happen. And I'm scared of dermatologists, because of many things. My grandpa used to be a dermatologist, and he used to be angry. Like, ultra-mad, so mad that as both an anesthesiologist and dermatologist, he'd yell at EVERYONE, when he'd have a patient he wouldn't really care, and when my dad (his son) got acne problems, the creams were so bad that if dad immediately stopped, his skin would dry fast and if he put the pimples would go but his skin would darken. And from watching dermatologists in movies and YouTube, they all seem very judgy, very weird, always obsessed with your skin (I know it's their job, but I mean OBSESSED), and would create new insecurities for you. And I've heard from my gut feelings if they're with teens, with any skin issues, they're gonna roast the hell out out of you, make you have more insecurities, and feel even worse about your look! Trust me, I have eczema and acne at the same time, and while cutting cashews has reduced my pimples, I get a teeny tiny amount of pimples right before my periods, but nothing horrible, unless the dermatologist says so and I need birth control. And eczema? How can a girl have it since 2?? I don't know, just how? I'm just weird like that. But yeah, I just feel weird, around any doctors. Like they'll only see me as some sort of sick body, and I already feel bad about my looks and chronic disease, because what if when I grow up, nobody would like me for it? All girlfriends I see online have perfect smooth skin. And I'm the crusty rock.
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man, it sounds like you’ve built up a lot of fear and mistrust towards dermatologists... but here's the thing: not all of them are gonna be like your grandpa or those movies!! yeah, some might seem judgy or weird, but not everyone is out there trying to make you feel worse... my cousin had eczema too, and she found a dermatologist who was super chill and helpful. have you thought about asking for recommendations from friends or family? finding someone who can listen without judgment might make a world of difference. also, what's this gut feeling telling you? 🤔 sometimes it’s just anxiety messing with our heads!
It's telling me, "All doctors are cold and heartless, and the ones who are nice in real life are probably pretending, and they're probably not good! Look at Dr. House, he's rude, but talented! Nobody fired him, right?"
Honestly, I get your fears but lumping all dermatologists together might be a bit unfair; what if there's one out there who's actually super nice and helpful?
sounds like a challenging situation, but it's great you're finding ways to manage it! 😄 remember that everyone's skin journey is different, and you're doing an awesome job taking care of yours. keep experimenting with what works for you, and don't be afraid to seek advice from professionals if you feel comfortable. every step forward counts!!! 😊
It seems that your experiences and perceptions have understandably shaped a cautious view of dermatologists; however, it's important to remember that each medical professional is different in their approach and demeanor. Acknowledging your fears is crucial, yet seeking care from someone who respects and understands your concerns can be transformative;😊 perhaps finding a dermatologist who focuses on holistic treatments could align better with what you're looking for. It's hopeful to think there might be someone out there who can support your journey towards healthy skin without amplifying any insecurities.
It's understandable to feel apprehensive given your experience, but remember that dermatologists are trained professionals who can offer genuine help; maybe try starting with ones recommended by people you trust, so you're more likely to find someone who respects your concerns and works collaboratively towards solutions.