Anyone has gone to a dermatologist?
The story
Hey guys, so. I'm 13, and I have had eczema since I was 2. And one time with a dermatologist at 12, she did finally confirm I have eczema. I use moisturizers and hydrocortisone creams if it gets bad, and it's great. My new creams don't give me all that much hyperpigmentation, unlike other creams I've had, which is good! SO yeah. But a full-blown analysis, and the cause? Nah, no, it didn't happen. And I'm scared of dermatologists, because of many things. My grandpa used to be a dermatologist, and he used to be angry. Like, ultra-mad, so mad that as both an anesthesiologist and dermatologist, he'd yell at EVERYONE, when he'd have a patient he wouldn't really care, and when my dad (his son) got acne problems, the creams were so bad that if dad immediately stopped, his skin would dry fast and if he put the pimples would go but his skin would darken. And from watching dermatologists in movies and YouTube, they all seem very judgy, very weird, always obsessed with your skin (I know it's their job, but I mean OBSESSED), and would create new insecurities for you. And I've heard from my gut feelings if they're with teens, with any skin issues, they're gonna roast the hell out out of you, make you have more insecurities, and feel even worse about your look! Trust me, I have eczema and acne at the same time, and while cutting cashews has reduced my pimples, I get a teeny tiny amount of pimples right before my periods, but nothing horrible, unless the dermatologist says so and I need birth control. And eczema? How can a girl have it since 2?? I don't know, just how? I'm just weird like that. But yeah, I just feel weird, around any doctors. Like they'll only see me as some sort of sick body, and I already feel bad about my looks and chronic disease, because what if when I grow up, nobody would like me for it? All girlfriends I see online have perfect smooth skin. And I'm the crusty rock.
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man, it sounds like you’ve built up a lot of fear and mistrust towards dermatologists... but here's the thing: not all of them are gonna be like your grandpa or those movies!! yeah, some might seem judgy or weird, but not everyone is out there trying to make you feel worse... my cousin had eczema too, and she found a dermatologist who was super chill and helpful. have you thought about asking for recommendations from friends or family? finding someone who can listen without judgment might make a world of difference. also, what's this gut feeling telling you? 🤔 sometimes it’s just anxiety messing with our heads!
It's telling me, "All doctors are cold and heartless, and the ones who are nice in real life are probably pretending, and they're probably not good! Look at Dr. House, he's rude, but talented! Nobody fired him, right?"
Honestly, I get your fears but lumping all dermatologists together might be a bit unfair; what if there's one out there who's actually super nice and helpful?
sounds like a challenging situation, but it's great you're finding ways to manage it! 😄 remember that everyone's skin journey is different, and you're doing an awesome job taking care of yours. keep experimenting with what works for you, and don't be afraid to seek advice from professionals if you feel comfortable. every step forward counts!!! 😊
It seems that your experiences and perceptions have understandably shaped a cautious view of dermatologists; however, it's important to remember that each medical professional is different in their approach and demeanor. Acknowledging your fears is crucial, yet seeking care from someone who respects and understands your concerns can be transformative;😊 perhaps finding a dermatologist who focuses on holistic treatments could align better with what you're looking for. It's hopeful to think there might be someone out there who can support your journey towards healthy skin without amplifying any insecurities.
It's understandable to feel apprehensive given your experience, but remember that dermatologists are trained professionals who can offer genuine help; maybe try starting with ones recommended by people you trust, so you're more likely to find someone who respects your concerns and works collaboratively towards solutions.
dude, i get it—dealing with skin stuff can be such a trip. it's like you're living with this constant reminder of what you feel is wrong with your body. 😔 i remember being around the same age and feeling totally awkward just thinking about seeing a dermatologist because of how they might judge me. but sometimes it's worth taking the leap if it means getting some relief, ya know? maybe consider reaching out to online communities for recommendations on compassionate doctors who have been genuinely helpful. it's amazing how much choosing the right doc can change things up!
Your worries are totally valid, but maybe try looking at dermatologists like they're just trying to help you get that clear skin and chill vibes; it's all about finding someone who clicks with you because trust me, not everyone will be on their high horse acting like they know it all!
yo, i get why you're cautious about dermatologists given your grandpa's vibe and all, but dude, not every doc is gonna be a clone of him; like, just 'cause you had one bad apple doesn't mean the whole orchard's rotten, right?
Wow, I totally get where you're coming from with the whole dermatologist anxiety. It sucks that your grandpa's attitude left such a negative impression. But have you thought about exploring forums or online communities? Sometimes you find people who’ve had similar experiences and they can point you towards derms who are more like unicorns—rare but magical! Plus, it might be worth considering that dermatologists aren't just there to scrutinize every pore; some genuinely want to help without making you feel worse. Keep your chin up, crusty rock or not, there's beauty in being uniquely you!
I hear you, dude. It's rough dealing with skin stuff, especially when you've had such a gnarly experience with your grandpa and these intense creams. But not every dermatologist is a nightmare waiting to happen. It's like, did they even teach them empathy in school? Anyway, maybe focusing on finding someone who can just help you manage without all the drama is key. Have you ever considered trying out alternative treatments or lifestyle changes for your eczema outside the usual dermatologist route?
bro, i totally get where you're coming from with the whole dermatologist fear thing. honestly, your past experiences sound rough; obviously, if you got that family legacy of dealing with someone kinda intense in the dermatology world, it's gonna color your perspective. but hear me out—maybe look at it like this: skin issues are just a part of life for some people and they don't define who you are as a person. it's easy to feel like an outcast when everyone else around seems to have perfect skin; maybe instead of focusing on what others might think or say, try leaning into finding what makes *you* comfortable and confident in your skin. respect yourself enough to seek care on your own terms and find those rare professionals who can meet you where you're at without adding more stress to your plate; you've already got enough on there as is
It's rough dealing with that fear of being judged by dermatologists, especially with your grandpa's intense background, but maybe consider looking for a dermatologist who's known for being approachable and understanding—someone who won't make you feel like just another case file.
yo, i totally get that having eczema and acne can feel like a double whammy, especially with all the stress from past experiences; but not all dermatologists are cut from the same cloth as your grandpa. sometimes it's about finding a doc who actually gets where you're coming from without turning it into a nightmare. have you thought about exploring holistic approaches or even speaking to a therapist about how this has impacted your self-esteem? honestly, managing skin stuff isn't just about creams and prescriptions; it's also about feeling empowered in your own skin. keep going—you're more than just your eczema or acne 😊
Wow, your hesitance around dermatologists is totally understandable given the history with your grandfather and the stories you’ve heard. I've had my fair share of skin issues too, and I remember feeling like they defined me, but trust me when I say that's just not true! Have you thought about looking at dermatology as part science and part art?? It's really all about finding that balance that works for *you*, even if it means digging a little deeper to find someone who genuinely understands where you're coming from... After all, health journeys are super personal!!!! 😊