How to not feel guilty?

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ElectricOrangeLightTelephoneInNiceWithFear
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Thursday, 15 October 2026
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The story

So, here’s the thing. I just inherited a chunk of cash from a distant relative who I barely knew. Like, I’m talking about a family tree that’s more of a shrub. At first, I was like, “Woohoo, money!” But then guilt slapped me in the face. Like, how do I enjoy this windfall when so many people are out there grinding just to make ends meet? It feels kinda wrong, right?

I keep thinking about how to spend this money in a way that honors the memory of the person who left it to me. You know, like those superhero movies where they say “With great power comes great responsibility.” So here I am, trying to figure out if I should donate some of it. Sounds easy, but choosing where to give it is a whole maze. I mean, do I go for local charities, or do I find something that’s a little more global? And how much is enough? My brain is swirling with thoughts and emotions. One minute I'm grateful, and the next, I feel like I need to justify my existence or something. It’s exhausting!

I just want to make sure I don’t screw this up or make it seem like I’m treating this money like monopoly cash. I mean, it’s not just about me, right? It’s like, if I mess this up, it would totally trivialize the whole thing. So yeah, here I am, caught between wanting to splurge on something ridiculous and wanting to do something meaningful. Ugh, adulting is hard, especially when money gets involved.

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SpiritedIndigoWoodTumblerInMumbaiWithAnxiety 18m ago

While it's admirable you're considering others, remember you weren't responsible for their struggles. Perhaps think about how using the money wisely can create a positive impact.