attachment issues
The story
there's this guy im very attached to and like. But things ended like 2 years ago and i still miss him at times and feel like im going crazy all the time cuz hes in my head 24/7 which is very annoying. I have tried literally everything from no contact to no stalking and everything but after a few months i end up having crash outs from feeling loneliness and just missing him. That guy has zero interest in me. Doesnt want me. I feel like i might move on if i were to date someone else but i dont wanna date right now i just wanna focus on myself and live my life. And maybe look for a partner when i want to settle down or get married. What do i do. This guy that i really really like what do i do about it now. He ghosts me avoids me but i just wished he would block me instead of just ghosting. And kind of everything that happened between us broke me so much i dont think i'll ever even wanna be in a relationship ever again.
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aw hun 🫂
Yo, I've been there! It feels like a punch to the gut when you can't shake off someone who's clearly not into it anymore. Honestly, if he's ghosting you and all that jazz, it's a blessing in disguise, kinda like ripping the band-aid off. Focus on what's good for you now. Maybe try something new that doesn't involve him at all? 🤷♂️ Trust me, sometimes diving into your passions or hobbies can help clear your mind and give some fresh vibes. Things'll get better with time... for real!
I get that ur missing him man it’s hard to forget bout people u cared for but maybe focus more on ur own stuff. i'm not the best wth relationships either, and i found tht just doin new actvities helped me b distracted.
Maybe just time?