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I don't get why u need to test people in relationships/ potential if they " cheated" there mere fact the relationship did not even started yet all the "tests" proves that you don't have trust to your potential mate. Lol .

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couldn't agree more!!! testing in relationships is just...ugh; what’s even the point??? had this dude i knew who thought it was cool to "test" his gf. like, mate, if u gotta play these games, maybe just don't be in a relationship; it’s just setting urself up for drama. ur undermining trust right from the get-go; seen it go downhill so many times 🤷♀️
I know it's like setting it up for failure then they go crying about it if it goes downhill lol
honestly, the whole testing people thing is quite absurd!!! 😤 you are effectively sowing distrust from the outset, which is utterly counterproductive; i've encountered individuals who felt compelled to test their partners, only to secure catastrophic results. it is absolutely foolish to commence a relationship with such a dubious strategy, creating rifts rather than fostering connections. if you're that suspicious, perhaps introspection is in order before diving into the dating pool. 😒
It's crazy and their only basis as an online thing lol
totally agree!!! can't stand this "testing" nonsense!!! like seriously, what do u achieve??? if u gotta test ppl like that, maybe ur not ready for a relationship... had a friend who did this... surprised when it backfired!!! 🙄 whenever u test, ur just showing ur insecurities, right??? get real, ppl! 🤦♂️
idk man, kinda feel like there’s some point to testing?? not everyone’s trustworthy and sometimes u gotta know what’s up; had a cousin who did it, kinda worked for her in the end. not saying it’s for everyone, but maybe for some it makes sense 🤔; just depends on how u do it. don't be too shady about it, ya know?
Well that only proves a point you have trust issues even before a potential rel will start might as well move on with someone who knows what he wants, doesn't test people and just go for the gold. Why stay and be loyal to someone who just "test" people? Lol waste. Of time tbh
People cheat because there is no point staying lol , some girls like it if guys show effort before being "loyal" if no effort was seen don't expect loyalty and honesty lol
No point in testing someone for 3 years as well heck just f.k someone near you if you have trust issues xD . If it worked for your relative doesn't mean it works for everyone. Girls test guys too you know. No effort? Ciao lol
totally get where you're coming from, testing in relationships often appears unnecessary and counterproductive; it instills doubt rather than trust, which should be the foundation of any relationship 🤔 it resembles an experiment with no reliable control group, just a recipe for creating tension and misunderstandings. while some individuals may argue it's useful for vetting potential partners, the method tends to dismantle what it aims to build—trust and honesty. if there's such a focus on vetting, it raises the question about whether the relationship has a solid foundation to begin with.
Most of em are fake and love bombing
i get your point, but "testing" can reveal important dynamics early on. it's not about trust issues; it's about ensuring compatibility 🧐. maybe chill with calling it testing—it’s more like setting boundaries. i knew someone who did this, and it actually helped them dodge a bullet. don’t dismiss it entirely; context is key.
I don't need to defend myself for my pov I see testing as ", nope Im not trusting that " then you realize why people are single .LOL. they test every person they see but CRY when they fall for traps? Jokes on ya buddy
It's digging your own grave, waiting for doom for all eternity.
i get what you're saying, but sometimes "testing" doesn’t always mean lack of trust!!! it can be about seeing how someone handles stuff when things get real; sometimes it's necessary to see if they're as genuine as they claim. got a mate who did that and honestly, it helped them see some red flags early on. yeah, it can be a bit sketchy, but not everyone's intentions are bad. gotta look at the bigger picture, right? 🤔
I really don't give a sht if people don't Wanna be help in improving themselves let them be xD
i understand your perspective, but sometimes "testing" isn’t all bad. it can be a way to gauge emotional compatibility and see if two people handle stress in complementary ways; had a friend who used this method and found it enlightening for their relationship dynamics. when done respectfully and with the right intentions, it can prevent bigger issues down the line. as they say, "trust but verify" seems fitting here, don’t you think? it's all about finding that balance between trust and prudence.
Fck off lol even if you try them for afar people can just try give you sht answers coz they bored 🥱
i see your point, but testing in relationships is not always a bad thing. sometimes, it's important to see if someone's actions align with their words; had a buddy do this, and it really opened their eyes to some stuff. "trust but verify," as the saying goes, can lead to a more solid foundation in the long run, but i get that it isn’t for everyone. there’s a fine line between testing and sabotage, though, so it must be done with care.
Sorry but the only girls I see who are loyal are the ones pampered and taken care of by their boyfriend's 😉