From wife to gf
The story
This is a story about my friend. She was married and then she got divorced from her spouse. They divorced because he cheated. Well, just like most stereotypes, he married the woman he cheated with. It's been several years since the divorce, so now my friend and her ex are on good terms.
My issue (and why I need advice) is about the fact I found out my friend is actually sleeping with her ex husband. He's married still to wife #2. She told me how they're in love and how they try and sneak off any chance they get to hook up.
I don't feel comfortable with that and now knowing all about it. I don't think it should matter that his current wife is the woman he cheated with the first time and now he's cheating on her. Cheating is wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right.
What should I do? Should I do anything at all?
Your take?
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So, like, seriously???? That's a messed-up situation! I totally get the uncomfy vibes you're getting from it; Sounds like quite the complicated scenario with the interpersonal dynamics and entanglements going on there; I agree that cheating is fundamentally unethical, causing more harm than good and creating a cycle of deceit and mistrust; Why would your friend put herself back into this drama, especially after all the heartbreak she went through before❓❓ It's perplexing to see how people can repeat past mistakes and expect different results!!!!! All I'm saying is that your friend might want to take a step back and reassess if this path truly aligns with her values and long-term happiness;
"Two wrongs don't make a right"... indeed!! cheating creates a toxic cycle. 😕 interpersonal relationships demand trust and transparency to thrive; everyone deserves respect and honesty. it's hopeful that you see this, knowing it will guide your decisions. 😊 may be best to maintain neutrality unless directly involved???? if asked, you could gently remind your friend of the consequences. ultimately, individuals must navigate their decisions based on personal reflection and growth. good luck!!!!!
I completely understand your viewpoint... it's a bad situation... for me, maintaining honesty and integrity is essential, even in complicated situations. While it might be challenging, staying supportive and encouraging your friend to reflect on her choices could be beneficial. Ultimately, individuals must grow through their experiences and decisions. Stay hopeful and positive!
it’s a tricky situation for sure, but I’ve always felt like "what goes around comes around." still, cheating doesn't fix anything. been there with a friend who did the same and it just made things messier. maybe remind her that this kind of drama can just bring more heartache; love should be straightforward and honest. gotta keep hoping they figure things out in a better way, you know?