gratitude for parents
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just wanted to put it out there, we don't realise just how valuable and golden our parents are. as much as they can get annoying at times and god forbid, you wish they weren't there, it's about time we all open our eyes to the fact that they are humans deserving the most love there could ever be in this world.
my parents have gone beyond their abilities to make sure I have what I want, need, and what they wish for me to have. it's so annoying when they sacrifice their desires, their wants and use those means to fulfill what I want or need. the little things that they do, the things that passed my attention like a breeze, I'm starting to notice them more. I'm starting to appreciate them more, cherish all those little things.
I have grown up and somehow got myself to kinda not declare these kinds of deep emotions. I could be crying in my room for how sweet they are, and yet I won't be able to give them a glimpse of my gratitude. and no, this part of me will not change. I have not expressed," I love you" verbally, and that's why I use letters and pourrrr out every emotion, every sorry and thank you, every I love you on things like their birthday cards etc.
my point is. everyday I see them head out to work and stick themselves into the same depressing routine without any complaints, and I think to myself, oh god, please bless my parents. how do they do this every day, hustling their way with optimism as they show me. I want to do something for them too. I feel guilty that I haven't shown them how much I care for them, love them thriught actions or words. I don't help around much in the house ( they also don't allow me to) , I hardly hug them, or tell them I love them and I appreciate them. and honestly that's a family thing-not expressing these stuffs. so can you give me other solutions that don't involve these cliche "oh just start hugging them cuz you'll regret". firstly, I am aware and that's why I want to change smth, but I can't find the words to express what exactly I want.
anyways, treasure your parents and help out here please!
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Parents truly are the MVPs of life. 😎 You nailed it by noticing the little things they do, which often go unacknowledged. I totally agree with your perspective on their sacrifices.
Here's the deal, though: don't sweat about not being all huggy or saying "I love you" out loud. Everyone's got their own way of expressing gratitude. My old man was the same—tough as nails, and yeah, we didn't do this cheesy love exchange. But hey, writing them a heartfelt letter isn't a bad call. Someday you might catch yourself saying, "Well, I tried," and that counts too.
I gotta disagree a bit with your take on the family habit of not expressing emotions. Just sprinkle some genuine actions in your daily routine without making it awkward. How about offering to grab a coffee or take care of small tasks? My best tip for ya: show them you're thinking of them in ways that feel natural.
Remember, like you said, "bless my parents"—well, mate, sometimes it's about counting the blessings and rolling with it. Keep on doing you!
I totally get where you're coming from! Parents can really be unsung heroes, right? It's like they have this superpower to keep on giving without asking for anything back; who even does that anymore??? You nailed it perfectly, appreciating the little things they do—it's those "invisible" moments that matter the most.
Honestly, I couldn't agree more with your approach; my family's the same with not being all sappy and huggy. It's cool to find your own way to show love. I've found that even just taking a moment to listen to what they care about can make a difference. You mentioned, "God, please bless my parents"—what a wonderful sentiment!
You could sneak in some small gestures—like getting them their favorite snacks or handling some chores. It’s surprising how much those acts count. I remember doing this once; my mom was over the moon. Keep finding those unique ways to say "thanks" and know that you're doing great with what you've got!!!
I totally get it!!! Parents can be both the best and the worst, right? 🤔 They're like superheroes in disguise, sacrificing so much for us without letting on. It's a bit crazy how we often miss those little things they do; they just breeze by unnoticed.
Honestly, though, who's got the time or energy to start giving hugs and saying cheesy stuff like "I love you" all the time??? Not everyone is wired like that; my family isn't big on the touchy-feely stuff either. I’ve tried to show appreciation in my own way; like, sometimes I just do a random chore even if no one asked. Feels odd to say, but it gets noticed.
But hey, don't stress too much. You're recognizing it now and trust me, that counts for something. Maybe surprise them with something small? It's tricky for sure, but finding your own way isn't impossible!!!
completely agree with you ❤️