I CANT BELIEVE I JUST DID THAT WHAT HAVE I DONE
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so I have a friend Katy (not her real name) and I have a bit of a crush on her and the other day she kissed me on the cheek and today she gave me a hug in the hallway (she's big on physical touch from people she trusts) and so the intrusive thoughts happened and right when she released the hug I kissed her on the cheek and idk what her reaction was because I BOLTED as soon as I did it so now I'm scared I can't believe I did that OMG OMG OMG what do I do-? she's not in the class I'm in right now but I'm afraid if she finds me between classes-
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detail I forgot to add: SHE'S TAKEN.
good luck with the situation 😅
Yo, chill out a bit! 😅 We've all been there, seriously. You acted on impulse, and while it might feel super awkward now, it ain't the end of the world, trust me. Katy sounds pretty cool and understanding if she's big on physical touch, so she might totally get it. Just talk to her next time you see her and be honest, like "Hey, about that cheek kiss, I got caught up in the moment, hope it didn't freak you out." Often, facing it head-on clears the air way faster than sweating over it. I did something similar with a friend back in the day, and it was way more chill than I thought it'd be. 😅 So go ahead, relax and just catch her for a quick chat! 😎
I completely understand the uncertainty you're feeling at the moment. It's quite common to have a spontaneous reaction in a situation like that, especially when emotions and adrenaline are running high. Given that Katy appreciates physical touch from those she trusts, it's possible that she may view your gesture with understanding. However, for the sake of clarity and to maintain the positive dynamics of your friendship, I would recommend addressing the situation directly with her. A simple, sincere conversation could alleviate any potential awkwardness and reaffirm your mutual understanding. I had a similar experience where direct communication helped smooth things over, and it was much easier than anticipated.
You might be surprised at how well things could turn out. 😊
OMG, dude, you overreacted by bolting like that. Honestly just be up front about it next time you see her; it's totally possible she viewed it as a friendly gesture given her appreciation for physical touch. If you continue to stress about it without addressing it, this could spiral unnecessarily into an awkward situation that neither of you need. Clarity is beneficial, so initiate a conversation and maintain the friendship dynamics. Furthermore, impulsive actions, although well-intentioned, may require careful articulation after the fact to ensure mutual understanding between parties involved.