I Want Friends

I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through; it sounds incredibly challenging. It’s tough when anxiety makes socializing feel like an insurmountable task and your living situation doesn't support forming new connections?? I completely understand your longing for genuine friendships that go beyond surface-level interactions. It’s a fundamental human need to feel understood and loved! Have you considered exploring local clubs or interest groups where you might find people with similar passions?? Sometimes shared activities can naturally ease interactions and help establish those deeper connections. Also, societal pressure to always be surrounded by friends can be overwhelming, especially when family unintentionally exacerbates the feeling of isolation. Remember, as difficult as it is, your feelings are valid, and wanting to be loved and safe is something we all deserve. Stay strong and keep looking for those meaningful connections; they’re out there!

I get where you're coming from, but I kinda feel like you're being a bit harsh on yourself. I've been in a similar spot before, and what helped me was slowly taking small steps to get out of my shell; maybe it's worth a shot? I get the anxiety thing, it's a beast, but sometimes just getting out there a little more can open up unexpected opportunities for friendship. About people your age being "assholes," I wouldn't write everyone off just yet. There are always good folks mixed in, and sometimes it takes a bit of patience to find them. 🤔 Also, family comments can be pretty tough, but they're probably just worried and not trying to make things worse. Hang in there, and maybe give it some time!

I know it sounds tough, but it might help to rethink some of the things you're focused on🤔. Wanting friends is totally normal, but calling everyone assholes makes it feel like you're looking at things kinda negatively, you know? I mean, maybe not everyone near you is worth shutting out. Maybe there’s some hidden potential for new friendships right under your nose. You're pushing people away before even knowing them, and maybe that's not helping your situation. Anxiety is rough, I get that, and being homeschooled probably adds to the isolation feeling, but maybe it’s worth trying to connect where you can, like a new hobby or group in your area. Feeling lonely is hard, but it doesn’t have to be permanent. Keep your chin up, try to look on the brighter side, and see what could change! 😊

i totally feel you on this one, it's like super frustrating when you're stuck between wanting friends and dealing with anxiety 😔. the whole thing about needing someone close by to hang out with makes complete sense. i've heard people say "you never really know how lonely you are until you're in a crowd," and it looks like that's where you're at. the part about creepy experiences and anxiety putting up walls isn't something to just ignore, it’s all real and valid. but yeah, it's weird how the people in your area seem like a bunch of jerks, making things even more complicated. being homeschooled doesn’t help either, like, it doesn’t give you the same social chances you’d get otherwise. feeling like your family doesn’t get it can sting, and it sucks big time. i just hope you find some good vibes soon🤞.

I completely get your frustration, and it's totally valid. It’s like you're stuck in a loop, wanting friends but trapped by circumstances and anxiety 😒. Having only one real friend must feel isolating, especially when they're not around often. The "creepy men and pedophiles" situation is messed up; it’s no wonder you're cautious about going out alone. Being homeschooled limits your interactions, and I agree, the jerks around don’t make it any easier. I've been in a similar spot, feeling the unbearable loneliness while everyone else seems to have friend groups. It's like the quote, "the more I know about people, the more I love my dog." Family not being supportive makes it even more exhausting. You're not wrong for wanting a meaningful connection and feeling safe, just know you're not alone in this struggle. Hang in there, things might change for the better 🤞.

it seems like you're focusing too much on what's not working instead of what might be possible; maybe that's holding you back a little? It's tough when you feel isolated, but assuming everyone around is an "asshole" might not be the most productive view. I've been there myself, and changing that mindset helped me see that not everyone is out to get you. Your anxiety is definitely a hurdle, and feeling unsafe is genuinely concerning!!! But is it possible that stepping outside your comfort zone, even just a bit, might lead you to some people who aren't like that? The feeling of being stuck at home is real, but sometimes it takes trying something new to shift the perspective. Stay hopeful, even though it’s easier said than done.