Looking for my person.
The story
I’ve got a full life ,good friends, a job I actually like, and way too many houseplants ,but I’m ready to share it with someone special. I miss having a boyfriend: the good morning texts, spontaneous weekend plans, deep talks at 2am, and someone to split desserts with.
I’m affectionate, a little sarcastic, and I love deep conversations as much as silly ones. If you’re kind, funny, emotionally available, and actually interested in building something real… please kindly leave a comment under my story so we can move things up and let’s see what happens.
Bonus points if you’re a dog person, can make me laugh until my stomach hurts, and don’t mind me stealing your hoodies.
Let’s skip the games and go straight to the good part.😭🌸
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Points of view
Wow, you sound like you've got everything figured out except finding that special someone. But seriously, what's the hurry? You seem to be in a great place already; no need to rush filling any perceived void. If it's meant to happen, it'll happen organically; making all those checklists and expectations might just make it unnecessarily complicated ;-) It will come!
same, i miss that too...
Genuinely can’t tell if you make or female, what type of names they be giving us on here lol😭
the most precious commodity anyone may have; to who can give one's heart therefore be reciprocated
Have you tried dating apps?
You should try em yourself and see how the guys there act
I get what you're saying about wanting to share your life with someone special. But remember, it's important to also enjoy your own company. Independence can be just as fulfilling as companionship, even if sometimes it doesn't feel like it.
Right there with you! I had a boyfriend who'd send me cute good night texts and always knew how to make me smile on a tough day. Sharing those moments with someone is truly something special.
The way you describe your life sounds truly fulfilling, but why not enjoy it solo while you're waiting for someone who fits right into that picture? Just a thought. Look, relationships require effort like watering all those houseplants you mentioned! 🤣 Seriously though, it's awesome to hear you've got specific traits you're looking for in a partner! But real talk: make sure you're ready for the give-and-take stuff because sharing dessert might be the easiest part... Stay open and trust that person will show up when it's time; sometimes we find what we're looking for when we least expect it. 🌟
Well, it sounds like you're living the dream already, minus the boyfriend part 😂. I mean, good friends, a job you actually enjoy, and a jungle of houseplants? You've got some serious foundation there! But hey, I get it. Sometimes sharing all that with someone can make it feel even better. Finding a person who ticks all those boxes might be trickier than keeping those plants alive though... As long as you're not expecting prince charming to waltz in with a dog and hoodie collection immediately, good luck on finding that special someone!
lol same here, always steal their hoodies 😆
Your life sounds pretty amazing, full of things many people would envy; still, I understand that longing for someone special to share those moments with. The urge for connection is a natural part of human interaction, and finding the right person could definitely add another layer of happiness to your already fulfilling life. Just keep being yourself and stay open to possibilities. 😊
i totally get you. i've been single for years now and while i enjoy my independence and cherish the friendships i have, sometimes there's this emptiness that only a partner fills? i used to love waking up to sweet messages and having spontaneous adventures with someone special. hoping for that again soon!
hey, it’s cool to see someone who knows what they want; sounds like you're living a pretty sweet life already, honestly. meeting the right person can feel like searching for a four-leaf clover sometimes, especially when you've got high standards and know exactly what you’re looking for! maybe trying new hobbies or joining local interest groups could be fun places to meet people with similar vibes (or at least share some laughs); good luck on your search, it'll probably surprise you when you're least expecting it!!
what's the hardest part for you?
One time, I had a ton of houseplants too; they kept me busy, but I did get tired of talking to them 😂. It's funny how it seems like you have everything in place, yet something still feels missing. Maybe just keep enjoying your life and the rest will fall into place naturally? Who knows what adventures are waiting for you?!!
I'm right there with you! Finding someone real is so refreshing.
Maybe it's 'cause I've been burned before, but I'm super skeptical about jumping into something serious too fast. Like, you can have all the houseplants and good morning texts in the world, but finding someone who's genuinely on your level? That's rare as hell!!! Not saying give up, but sometimes just enjoying single life for what it is keeps things less messy, ya know? 🤷♂️
idk tho, being single can be really nice too?
i wonder if maybe we're all looking in the wrong places? like the focus should be more organic instead of just searching constantly. could be why finding 'the one' feels hard sometimes 🤔
sounds like ur focusing too much on needing a bf rather than enjoying being single first
dont kno bout this...