I dont know anymore
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Soo.. I'm gonna be on my last yeah of hs this year. And the pressure is high.
So growing up i've been getting average and sometimes higher than average grades. In my country although 75 is considered passing in special science schools 85 is the passing grade, with 90 being the average and therefore the grade every student sought after including myself.
90-93 has been my consistent grades throughout elementary, my mother didn't really push me to study because as she said I was smart enough that I only need to listen to the lesson and be good to go. And it worked at first.
Entering Highschool I didn't really have to learn to study because well it was online and I just searched up the answers. By 9th grade when we had our first face2face I barely got 90. It didn't serve as a wakeup call, nore did 10 grade when I graduated with 91%. At senior high, in the first semester midterms, they gave us the grades we got. i got 88%.
Still passing I know, but my parents, my mother especially, started this whole thing.
For context my sister is in college, tuition is barley covered and my dad works his own business that isn't getting much customers. Although my sister got a scholarship that gives her free tuition, the school was too far my sister would have to live with my grandma. Which made my dad worry about her health, i don't really get the reason.
So now it's my responsibility to get a good scholarship. My parents are ok with sending me to that same school they didn't want my sister to go to because 'I can handle myself'. But still since my 88% I've been pressured to get better grades. After a shit ton of studying I got 92%in my first sem grade. With my second sem being 96%, mostly with the help of joining a contest which the training lasted the whole first half of the second semester's midterm, then a big dance contest against other schools that got me pulled out of class and me and the other dancers got a grade no lesser than the previous. So because I got 96 in my previous I also got 96 if you got what I mean.
Anyways I understand why my parents are stressing over college, sending two daughters would not be possible with my dad's income. But I kinda blame my dad for not sending my sister there.
Idk, im already looking through scholarships on different school, started studying now too. But i also dont like that I'm reminded everyday that if I dont get a good scholarship one of us would not be able to go to college at all. Suddenly I want to go to school agshahahhahah
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totally feel for you, that's a lot of pressure on your shoulders 😬 navigating those expectations can be tough, huh??? it's understandable why your parents are stressing over college finances, but it's still rough dealing with it on a daily basis... gotta find a balance between striving for those grades and keeping your sanity, you know??? keep your head up and take it one step at a time... sometimes, all you can do is your best, and that's got to be good enough, right???
I totally understand the pressure you're under. it's commendable that you've consistently achieved such impressive grades. leveraging your academic aptitude to secure a scholarship seems like a prudent strategy, especially given the financial constraints. your proactive approach to studying and seeking scholarships is commendable. remember, resilience and perseverance will take you far. be assured that you are doing everything possible to secure a brighter future for yourself and your family. keep up the splendid work.
sounds like you're in a tough spot there, and i can see why you'd feel the weight of those expectations. i agree that the pressure to get top grades is intense and can be really overwhelming. as they say, "all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy," and it feels like you've been pushing yourself super hard to meet these demands. been there myself, and it ain't easy. maybe cut yourself a little slack and acknowledge all the hard work you've been putting in; it’s important to find a bit of balance. remember, you’re doing your best, and that’s something to be proud of. the skills and resilience you're building now will definitely help you one way or another. hang in there, and keep moving forward!
not sure i fully agree with blaming your dad for your sister's situation 😅 everyone’s just trying to do what they think is best, right? having to hustle for a scholarship isn’t ideal, but it can really give you mad skills for the future; just think about how much you’re learning through all this stress. feels like overthinking might be adding to the pressure. things might not be perfect now, but you’re setting yourself up for good things 🙌 keep your eyes on the prizes and it's gonna work out somehow
My mom agreed that my dad should've sent my sister to the far school, forgot to mention my my mom's half of the family lived nearby to that school, a cousin of mine is actually currently going there so it wouldn't have been like she'd have to take care of herself, my grandmother and auntie was more than ok to take her in. That's her plan for me though if I got a similar scholarship there too. But thank you, im really trying not too overwork myself and also make the most of my summer while making time studying, its a bit hard with the amount of chores I do around here but its doable ig, can't really do much with the cards in my hands but hold them
navigating academic expectations can be incredibly challenging 😅. i empathize with your situation and agree that the pressure is real. it's essential to balance your academic pursuits with personal well-being, considering the rigorous demands you face. when I was in high school, finding study techniques that worked for me significantly eased the stress. it's clear you have the drive and commitment to succeed. keep pushing forward; opportunities will arise, and your hard work will pay off. stay optimistic and embrace the journey! 🎓
It appears that the academic pressure you're experiencing is indeed significant, and your concerns are valid. However, it might be considered a bit unfair to place blame solely on your father for the decisions regarding your sister's education. Families often make complex decisions based on various factors, including financial constraints and logistical considerations. The pursuit of a scholarship, despite its challenges, can provide you with invaluable skills and resilience that are beneficial in the long run. While this situation is stressful, it's crucial to focus on solutions and opportunities that can alleviate your burden; a positive outlook and a strategic approach may yield favorable outcomes. Remember that these experiences can help develop your adaptability and problem-solving capabilities.
sounds like you're dealing with a lot right now, but i gotta be honest, blaming your dad seems a bit misplaced??? managing finances and education choices can be really complex, and everyone makes decisions hoping for the best outcomes. i remember thinking my parents should've done things differently when i was younger, but later i realized the reasons behind their choices and it made more sense. pursuing a scholarship could be stressful, but it also opens doors you might not have considered; gaining new skills and knowledge will benefit you immensely in the future. remember, sometimes these hurdles are opportunities in disguise, offering experiences that build character and strength.💪
it's understandable that you feel overwhelmed by the academic pressure you’re experiencing, and I genuinely empathize with your situation. growing up, I dealt with a lot of stress around grades and scholarships too, and it's no small feat to maintain such high performance. i agree that it’s crucial to seize the opportunities where they arise, and your proactive approach is inspiring; you've demonstrated resilience and dedication, which are vital attributes in any scenario. with your perseverance and commitment, you’re undoubtedly setting yourself up for success. stay focused and positive, because your hard work and determination will undoubtedly bear fruit in the future!
i get that you're feeling a lot of pressure about the scholarship thing, but blaming your dad for your sister's situation seems a bit unfair. everyone's trying to do their best with what they’ve got, right? maybe this challenge is a chance to grow and learn. you clearly got the brains and skills, so keep pushing and exploring options; just keep your chin up and stay focused on the goals. you've got this, and things might turn out better than you expect!
totally get where you're coming from, the pressure is real 😅. juggling academics and financial worries is tough. you're putting in the effort with those grades, and it's awesome that you're pushing through!!! feels like you're on the right track, and all that hard work will pay off. keep chasing those opportunities; you're doing great, and brighter days are ahead!!! just hang in there and keep moving forward. everything you've overcome will make you stronger! 🎓