My family don't love me
The story
I used to try to be a good daughter for my parents, but everyday they were sending me to the edge , Im not gonna talk about details from the past ... But now all I can see and understand is that im a worthless piece pf garbage, I've been neglected my whole life , noone ever tries to listen to me or understand me , I always tried to be an easy going person , only for tem to step on me . Ppl always disrespect me at the slightest chance , in ways I would never do , and that hurts me because I try to make ppl feel welcomed and safe , but noone has ever cared about how I feel , or the fact that I have feelings, I dont remember someone asking me "are you alright" , I've been going through intense depression since i was 13 (im 19 now) , but I never done smth to deserve all the hate I get from my family , I tried to be a good person and neglected myself for that , I never go out , only to school ,never cause problems or anything , and on top of that "used" to have the best grade in my class every year , but never made me feel like I did smth good , I always wanted to hear my dad say smth nice or call me "daughter" but he never did . Now back to the present, i forgot to talk about abuse , but I've been and still get verbally and physically abused by both my parents, it's so ironic how mu dad who cant say "daughter" doesn't hesitate to call me a bitch for no reason , he who never hugged me , doesn't hesitate to hit me with metal objects and leave bruises on my skin for weeks , I just tried ... And tried to understand what i did but never knew , i feel like im going to explode, It's not fair , Im a good prsn , I tried my best , but everyone hates me , I dont know what i did , why are they treating me like this , is it because im always depressed ? Because i dont laugh or cheer up ? How is this my fault? Im both mentally and physically sick because of these ppl , thwy arch to see me fall and never get up , they wante to depend on them so they can easily let me down and break me , i just want for my dad and mo to stop hitting me this bad , and to stop cursing at me and wishing me death every single day . I never asked to be born
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I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this situation. It sounds incredibly tough and unfair; sometimes, it feels like life gives us more than we can handle. Your experiences of abuse shouldn't be downplayed—there's never an excuse for it. Have you tried reaching out to someone about this? It's crucial to have support, whether it's a friend, counselor, or a helpline. Remember, it's OK to set boundaries or find an advocate. You're not obligated to endure such treatment, even from family. Stay strong; there are people out there who truly care and can help 🌟
man, that sounds seriously rough. can't imagine the pain you've been through, but you're strong for sharing it; reminds me of someone I knew who went through a similar deal and found support from a local group. it's crazy how people who are supposed to lift us up end up being the ones who drag us down. ever heard "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger?" cliche, I know, but sometimes there's truth in it. keep your chin up and try finding someone you can talk to, maybe a friend or therapist? people care more than you think 💪
it's utterly appalling to hear about the physical and emotional maltreatment you've endured; regardless of familial ties, such behavior is unjustifiable. one ought to assert one's autonomy and seek out a support system that offers genuine empathy and comprehension. while the situation appears bleak, acquiring external assistance might serve as a catalyst for change. no one merits the suffering you've described, and it is imperative to recognize that self-worth is inherent, not dictated by others' treatment. prioritizing your own well-being is not merely advisable—it's essential 🤝
First of all are you from Kerala (india)...Idk i feel ik you but i Could be wrong, if you are from Kerala then i know you we were together for 1 year.
I read what you wrote… and I want to say this to you straight from the heart, your worth is not decided by how your parents treated you. You’re not garbage. Write down every time you’re mistreated not to relive the pain, but so you have proof (for yourself and later if you need support). Try to find one safe person outside your family (friend, counselor, relative, teacher, even online support groups).
If you live in india If the abuse is physical and extreme, don’t stay silent. In India, you can call Women Helpline 181 or Childline 1098 (even if you’re 19, they connect you to safe resources). You can also go to the nearest police station and file a complaint under Section 498A IPC (domestic violence/abuse) or the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act.
If that feels too heavy, reach out to a trusted teacher, college professor, or close friend’s family first.
Ik you have a boyfriend so stay with him things will workout slowly.
hi, I am sure nothing that I can say right now will take the burden off your shoulders or the pain out of your life. what i can do is encourage you to keep pushing forward, and tell you that you are loved and that you have value. society puts so much pressure on us to put up with people just because they are our "family". there are a lot of people out there who just don't deserve to have kids. I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. no one deserves that, especially not a child. there are plenty of people out there who would love to have you in their lives. you don't have to feel obligated to love someone just because you are related to them. it is terrible that your dad says and does stuff like that to you. but you should know that there are plenty of people out there who would be proud to call you a daughter. life might seem hopeless right now, but you should know that there are people out here cheering you on. I truly hope that things get better for you and that you can find people who make you feel loved. you should also know that as long as you value yourself, it doesn't matter if anyone else does. I would encourage you to reach out and tell someone what is going on. maybe you can get help and get out. you deserve to know that you are loved, even by someone who has never met you. again, I don't think there is anything that I can say to measure up to what you must be going through right now, but I hope my words can make you feel a little less alone