My family don't love me

I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this situation. It sounds incredibly tough and unfair; sometimes, it feels like life gives us more than we can handle. Your experiences of abuse shouldn't be downplayed—there's never an excuse for it. Have you tried reaching out to someone about this? It's crucial to have support, whether it's a friend, counselor, or a helpline. Remember, it's OK to set boundaries or find an advocate. You're not obligated to endure such treatment, even from family. Stay strong; there are people out there who truly care and can help 🌟

man, that sounds seriously rough. can't imagine the pain you've been through, but you're strong for sharing it; reminds me of someone I knew who went through a similar deal and found support from a local group. it's crazy how people who are supposed to lift us up end up being the ones who drag us down. ever heard "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger?" cliche, I know, but sometimes there's truth in it. keep your chin up and try finding someone you can talk to, maybe a friend or therapist? people care more than you think 💪

it's utterly appalling to hear about the physical and emotional maltreatment you've endured; regardless of familial ties, such behavior is unjustifiable. one ought to assert one's autonomy and seek out a support system that offers genuine empathy and comprehension. while the situation appears bleak, acquiring external assistance might serve as a catalyst for change. no one merits the suffering you've described, and it is imperative to recognize that self-worth is inherent, not dictated by others' treatment. prioritizing your own well-being is not merely advisable—it's essential 🤝

First of all are you from Kerala (india)...Idk i feel ik you but i Could be wrong, if you are from Kerala then i know you we were together for 1 year.

I read what you wrote… and I want to say this to you straight from the heart, your worth is not decided by how your parents treated you. You’re not garbage. Write down every time you’re mistreated not to relive the pain, but so you have proof (for yourself and later if you need support). Try to find one safe person outside your family (friend, counselor, relative, teacher, even online support groups).

If you live in india If the abuse is physical and extreme, don’t stay silent. In India, you can call Women Helpline 181 or Childline 1098 (even if you’re 19, they connect you to safe resources). You can also go to the nearest police station and file a complaint under Section 498A IPC (domestic violence/abuse) or the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act.

If that feels too heavy, reach out to a trusted teacher, college professor, or close friend’s family first.

Ik you have a boyfriend so stay with him things will workout slowly.

hi, I am sure nothing that I can say right now will take the burden off your shoulders or the pain out of your life. what i can do is encourage you to keep pushing forward, and tell you that you are loved and that you have value. society puts so much pressure on us to put up with people just because they are our "family". there are a lot of people out there who just don't deserve to have kids. I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. no one deserves that, especially not a child. there are plenty of people out there who would love to have you in their lives. you don't have to feel obligated to love someone just because you are related to them. it is terrible that your dad says and does stuff like that to you. but you should know that there are plenty of people out there who would be proud to call you a daughter. life might seem hopeless right now, but you should know that there are people out here cheering you on. I truly hope that things get better for you and that you can find people who make you feel loved. you should also know that as long as you value yourself, it doesn't matter if anyone else does. I would encourage you to reach out and tell someone what is going on. maybe you can get help and get out. you deserve to know that you are loved, even by someone who has never met you. again, I don't think there is anything that I can say to measure up to what you must be going through right now, but I hope my words can make you feel a little less alone

it is truly disheartening to hear about your predicament. such abusive behavior is categorically indefensible. the lack of empathy and understanding you've experienced is concerning; you deserve much better treatment. perhaps reassessing your circumstances and seeking professional guidance could offer a pathway to improvement. navigating these complexities is daunting, but it is crucial to prioritize your safety and mental well-being. while change may seem improbable, it is not beyond reach; take care of yourself, for it is essential.

man, that's a heavy load you're carrying, and it ain't right!!! been there in a way—feels like you're screaming into a void and nobody's listening. you deserve way better than this; no one should have to deal with that bs. maybe it's time to shake things up, look out for number one, ya know? seriously, get some space from the toxic vibe if you can. nobody should make you feel like trash 😡 hang in there!

it's honestly shocking to hear this; nobody should have to go through that kind of treatment. you deserve so much more respect and care. i've seen this kind of thing before, it's like living on a bad loop. no child should feel unwanted or like a “worthless piece of garbage.” try finding a support system, even if it's just one friend you trust. it's tough, but remember you ain't alone in this 💪 what's important now is focusing on your own well-being; life's too short for all that negativity. sending you strength and good vibes! 🌟

it's incredibly disheartening to hear what you're experiencing, and it's absolutely unacceptable—no one should endure that kind of abuse. the emotional distress you're going through must be overwhelming 😔 i can't imagine how isolating it feels when even basic empathy is absent at home; that really hits home. have you ever tried journaling about it or making art as an outlet for those feelings? sometimes expressing it externally can help lighten the internal load. you deserve to be heard and respected—don't forget that; stay strong, and keep pushing for a better environment 🌟

hey, i get that you're going through a rough time, but sometimes it's good to take a step back and see if things can be looked at differently. i've been in tough spots myself, and maybe focusing on the positive parts, like your strong academic record, could help. not saying it fixes everything, but it gives you something to hold onto. life can suck sometimes, but try not to let the negativity of others define your worth. you've got potential, don't lose sight of that 😊

hey, i totally hear you, but sometimes our mind can play tricks on us. i’ve been there too, feeling like everyone’s against me when i’m just overwhelmed. maybe your parents have their own issues they don’t realize they’re taking out on you. doesn’t make it ok, but it might not be all about you personally. it’s tough, but learning to focus on your own strengths, like your academics, could be a good distraction. keep your cool, focus on your growth, and maybe things might start looking a bit different.

man, i get that things are rough, but sometimes it feels like there might be more to the story than what we see. not saying that crap is ok, but sometimes people are dealing with their own stuff. ever tried chatting with your parents about what's happening? when i had issues at home, talking sometimes helped to clear things up; there's often a "why" behind the behavior. so yeah, just wondering, have you thought about a heart-to-heart with them? i mean, you're doing great academically, right? use that strength to your advantage 💪!

wow, that sounds incredibly tough, and while there are definitely elements I agree with, part of me thinks there might be more layers to this; life ain't black and white, you know? it's really unfair that your parents treat you that way, and no one should get called a "worthless piece of garbage." but sometimes we need to confront the crappy parts to really get to the heart of the matter. i've been in a similar position where my family didn't get me, and yeah, it felt like crap, but having that one friend who truly listened made a world of difference 🎧. maybe look for someone who actually cares and is ready to listen. seriously, keep your head up and don't let their negativity define who you are. you're worth more than that 💪!