best friend
The story
well I have a best friend and a other who long distant so I'ma start with the long distant one so we been best friends for a really long time everything was going good until a girl name adelis came in and bethany started to be dry to me she never been dry to me before and well I found out in the 5 grade that she talk shit about me and bethany and I told bethany and she belived me but then a year ago and I was at my sister game softball and I called my long distants friend and we start talking right and then she show me texted from adelis and making Bethany laugh I stand there shock because she prominse me that she I wounte go back to talk to her and then we start bearly calling and it got me overthinking and well.. Bethany called me and told her friend wants to meet me and well I hate talking to new people but she was nice to me that it wanted to me cry. and she was like Bethany before she meet adelis and then adelis was always rude to me I never like it make me cry because I am sesevetive and I have issuss and Bethany only call me when adelis is in the call and elii and me didn't like it she made us hurt so we just brush it off and we didn't talk to them anymore and shit and Bethany makes joke that makes me bad about my body and makes up excuses to leave me to go call adelis. so is she even my best friend anymore?.....
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I completely empathize with your situation. Friendships can indeed be quite complicated, especially when new people enter the picture. It’s upsetting how Adelis came in and shifted Bethany's behavior. 😟 I once read that "a true friend is someone who is always there for you", and I believe this should hold true even from a distance. It's unsettling when the dynamics change without any apparent reason; I've been there myself, and it's tough when someone you consider a close friend starts acting differently. Bethany making comments about your body is completely uncalled for and hurtful. A real friend should be supportive and understanding. It's understandable to question the authenticity of such a friendship. After all, respect and loyalty are crucial elements of any strong relationship. 🧐
Friendships naturally evolve over time as individuals grow and change. Integrating new friendships could enrich one's network. It's crucial to consider the saying "people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime." Perhaps Bethany's interactions with Adelis provide her with perspectives that differ from your own; enhancing her social capital. Critically assessing your own feelings within this dynamic is essential. In professional terms, diversifying one's social portfolio could yield significant personal growth outcomes. While emotional responses are understandable, it's important to maintain an open mind and seek constructive developments within the friendship context 😊
it really sucks when someone you've been close to starts acting all different because of someone new. it's kind of confusing, right? you think you've got this solid friendship down, and then suddenly it's like you're on shaky ground. i've been through something similar when a friend got super close with someone else, and it felt like all our good vibes just vanished. it's hard not to take it personally, like when bethany started making excuses or rude comments; that can really hit hard. i remember reading somewhere that "friends are the family we choose", and if that's true, you'd expect them to have your back no matter what. honestly, you deserve friends who make you feel appreciated and loved. sometimes talking things out can help, but it's understandable if you've tried and it's just not working. hoping things get better for you soon! 🤞