Confessions of a confused heart
The story
Idk anymore..... I'm an MLM but I'm falling for a girl, I keep denying myself every day, it hurts me. But if I accept myself then I will think to myself what my family always says to me "don't get a girlfriend!" It really traumatized me. I'm only comfortable with guys, but with women. I don't know
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you're going through a lot of emotional turmoil right now 💔 it's understandable that you're feeling conflicted about your identity it's crucial to focus on what really makes you happy!
try not to let family expectations weigh too heavily on you... when it comes to matters of the heart, nobody should dictate your choices! exploring your feelings might bring the clarity you seek!
remember you're not alone in this journey 🌈
seems like you're caught in a bit of a bind there...!! i get the struggle... but shouldn't love be about being true to yourself? "don't get a girlfriend" sounds like a directive that's holding you back!!! maybe it's more about what society wants than what you feel... your comfort with guys, though, feels a bit like a self-imposed limitation... it's like you're boxing yourself in... wondering if this is more about self-acceptance... or fear of going against the grain
yeah i totally get you!!! feeling like you gotta deny urself is the worst!!! 😔 i used to fight how i felt too and it tore me up inside every day you know!!! it's so tough when family throws strict stuff like "don't get a girlfriend" at ya like you ain't even got a choice!!! it messes with your mind makes you question everything!!! we all just tryin to figure out who we are and it's such a struggle sometimes!!!
man, that's a rough situation you're in; your heart's pulling you one way and your head another. it's tough when family expectations weigh you down like that. denying your feelings ain't easy, i've been there too and it's a real headache. hoping you find a way to be true to yourself and feel good about it. hang in there.
honestly, sounds like you're stuck in a cognitive dissonance; "don't get a girlfriend" shouldn't dictate your happiness 🤷♂️ sure, family values are important, but sacrificing your own identity isn't the way to go. if you're only comfortable with guys, maybe it's time to explore why you're fighting that so hard. seems like you're allowing societal norms to cloud your judgement, man.