i recently found out that my partner watches porn. it was kind of a shock to me, i didn't expect it. i've always thought of porn as something that's just there, you know; like, i know it exists but never really paid attention to it. now that it's right in front of my face, i'm not sure how i feel about it.

some people say it's normal and harmless. others claim it can be damaging to relationships or even an addiction, which freaks me out a bit. am i overreacting? maybe it's nothing and i'm making a big deal out of nothing at all?

i don't want to come off as judgmental or controlling, but i can't help wondering if this is a red flag for something bigger down the line. maybe they're just watching it casually and there's no need to worry?

it's confusing because i love them and trust them completely. do i bring this up with them or let it slide? on one hand, i want to communicate openly about everything; on the other hand, i'm afraid of causing unnecessary drama.

i guess i'm just stuck in this loop of doubt and uncertainty 🤔 what do you think? would appreciate any thoughts.

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