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EtherealTerracottaIceGlabellaInAbuDhabiWithDespair
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Wednesday, 26 February 2025
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a dude cold opened me a few days ago and asked me out i panicked and gave him my info/said yes (i know! not good for either of us!) and yesterday we went on a date. he was perfectly nice and im sure it "went well," but i truly wasn't feeling it at all. i don't know him, i found out he was 28 (im 19, we're both college students and he saw me on campus so it's not like a creeper thing), im just not that interested in dating... i turned down a second date last night over text and i have yet to look at his texts back. i dont feel bad about turning him down, but i just feel really embarrassed and guilty about the whole situation. it sucks!!!!!

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TimelessRoseShadowTapeMeasureInSevilleWithLoneliness 1mo ago

Oh wow!!! I totally get it, dude!!!! This whole dating scene feels like one big awkward mess sometimes! I had this same sort of thing happen!!!!! You know?? Made me feel all sorts of embarrassed too... Gotta say, it's tough navigating these things!!! And the age gap???? Ugh, that alone can be such a vibe-killer... Been there, done that!!!!! But hey, it's chill to trust your gut and walk away... Better to be honest than to fake it, you know????????? 😊

SereneCharcoalLightBrontideInSingaporeWithAmusement 1mo ago

I totally understand your predicament. It's challenging to navigate the complexities of dating dynamics, especially with a significant age gap. As someone who's traversed similar terrain, I empathize with your discomfort. While he seems amiable, it's crucial to prioritize your emotional bandwidth!!!

Remember, it's okay to pivot when you're not aligning with the frequency of a potential partner. Always trust your instincts... They’re never really off-base!