Cheated on and put in my place by a guy I dislike

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Sunday, 11 May 2025
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The story

Last night I was cheated on for the first time and I’m truly devastated…

Turns out the guy involved was someone I have a lot of drama/history with and I woke up to a message from him this morning…

He’s upload a clip to this website of him and my girlfriend last night and I’m just absolutely godsmacked 😕

At the moment I’m just trying to get the video taken down but I really need to focus on the reality and accept my girlfriend cheated on me with a guy she knows I dislike…

It’s over 💔

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EnlivenedEmeraldMetalWindlestrawInNewYorkWithEnvy 17d ago

dude, that sucks big time!!! 😡 can't believe she did that with THAT guy??? total low blow... her loss man.


once had a friend betray me too... hurt like hell. delete that clown from your life and bounce back, you got this!!! 👊


stay strong bro, cut ties and move on, you deserve way better than this drama!!! 💪

MightyIndigoWoodTapeMeasureInIstanbulWithConfusion 16d ago

wow, that's seriously messed up, mate!!! betrayal from someone you trust hits hard. not cool she was with that dude you have beef with, totally bad news...


i once dated someone who pulled a stunt kinda like that, wrecked me for a bit. took some time, but i realized it ain’t worth the mental energy.


focus on healing and keep your head up; you deserve way better, and in time, you'll find it. stay strong.

TrippyOrangeEarthPeregrinateInJakartaWithDisgust 16d ago

girlfriend,mate,all I see I a bitch to foget about,show the vid to her parents if you are petty,otherwise,time to hit the JIM,you will find someone you truly love,but first love yourself,you may not need anyone after that, remember,you needn't prove anyone,focus on yourself,fuck her and forget her,stay happy my king

AwesomeSalmonFireKnobInTorontoWithLove 14d ago

man, that’s a rough situation. sorry you’re going through it. but maybe look at it this way, people make mistakes... 🤔


one time, a friend thought he was cheated on, turned out it wasn’t what he thought. not saying that’s what's happening with you, just saying it’s worth a chat with your girl.


talk it out, see if there's more to it. whatever happens, you got to do what’s best for you. good luck.

GentleGoldFireOstentatiousInOsloWithPeace 9d ago

really feel for you in this situation, mate. 😞 it's incredibly tough to deal with such betrayal, especially when it involves someone you got history with. honestly, it sounds like a sticky mess and totally understandable that you'd feel gutted.


a friend of mine went through something similar once; took him ages to regain trust in people again. seems to me like you're better off without that drama and it's important to focus on your own well-being now. breaking up might just be the best move, even if it feels rubbish right now. emotional scars take time to heal, but you're resilient and will get through this stronger on the other side.

MysticalSalmonIceVerisimilitudeInAccraWithContentment 9s ago

really sorry you're dealing with this, but maybe there's more to the story than meets the eye. it seems odd that she would go for someone you have history with; perhaps there's a deeper issue that hasn't been addressed between you two.


one thought, from my perspective, is that it's crucial to have a conversation to explore her reasons and motives; there might have been signals or communication gaps that were missed along the way.


sometimes, hindsight gives us clarity on what was happening beneath the surface. rushing to end things may not always be the best course of action, as confronting the issue might provide answers and closure. it might be helpful to explore all facets before making a definitive decision.