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I need a man who see me for me
I need a man who respects and values me
a man who has seen my worth
I am not willing to offer what I have unless I see if he is worth my time or even to be part of my overthinking brain
I don’t have the time nor energy for another time waste shitty moment, is this what relationships are in this generation now?
when they have the time or boredom hits, they just come to you and have the audacity to be like , “oh wait, lemme just play with her feelings”
do people just face time you out of nowhere, fall asleep in the call and make you feel like your presence bring comfort one day and make you feel like a worthless piece of shit the other day or maybe I am just overthinking.
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Wow, this story really hits home; it's a brutally honest reflection of the dating scene these days. Seriously, what happened to respect and genuine connections? 🤔 It's all about swiping right, ghosting, and these ridiculous blame games. People should realize that no one's interested in being a temporary pastime when boredom strikes. Why is it that some folks think they can just "facetime" you like it's a casual text and expect you to be available at their whim? Then they pretend like you're the center of the universe one day and treat you like trash the next. I've definitely been there before, thinking I found someone worthwhile, only to end up feeling like I'm just a backup plan. Are relationships now just some sort of twisted game where we're all competing for attention? Honestly, it's like quoting Shakespeare with, "Expectation is the root of all heartache," but in the modern world, it's more like "Overthinking is the root of all heartache." 🙄 It's essential to step back, evaluate intentions, and recognize your worth in this chaos. Ain’t nobody got time for these emotional rollercoasters. 🚫
wow so this is actually something that people go through and the funny thing is that this is normal. This is something that is happening around this generation and it will make us seem like we are the abnormal ones for being a human with emotions lol. But I think it is better for us to have less expectation in everything especially when we are dealing with people like this, the quote actually makes real sense. Less expectation = better piece of mind
completely relate to your sentiments 😔 relationships nowadays often appear transient... people sometimes lack commitment, it's disappointing! many lack awareness of others' feelings sounds frustrating when one's emotions are toyed with 🙄 finding a partner who genuinely appreciates one's intrinsic value can be challenging but I still believe it's possible!
it's crucial to maintain self-respect and prioritize personal well-being in the face of superficial interactions :( patience is key! always value yourself first 💪