Life Stories and Everyday Drama - page 12

I feel so far behind like, everything is against me. I can't anymore I just want people to listen I want friends a boyfriend or girlfriend who won't undermine how I feel. I just wanna feel like me.

sincerely,

Melody (13 f)

Okay, let's begin.

My family lives in poverty; we're not wealthy or anything like that, but we live well. That's in Colombia, and I won't go into those details. What happened is that a few hours ago, they realized I'm failing one subject at university, and they said I was the worst, a piece of trash, a bad son, a bad brother, a bad friend. They said all sorts of awful things to me, and it's made me feel terrible. My mother physically assaulted me and said it was my hair that was preventing me from studying well, that I just spend all my time playing around and don't do anything around the house, which is why I'm failing. I only said I missed an assignment and an online exam, not that I was going to fail the subject. I said I'm a good student, that I've always proven it; I've been the best for years. But that wasn't enough for them. They only care about a measly degree or a grade; they don't care about me at all. They told me I had to cut my hair as punishment, or else they'd throw me out on the street like a dog, and I said I wasn't going to cut it. Well, now They're packing their bags. I hope everyone has a good trip. I might never reply to any messages you send me. Goodbye.

PS: If anything is translated incorrectly, it's the translator's fault, not mine.

being in your twenties

like what the hell? is it okay to be such a mess?

seriously Nothing is working for me am so tired like does it ever get better

I just wanna date. like have someone to hug kiss cuddle. feel less lonely but I'm only 13 but if anyone near that age wants to let me know cause please.

love me pleasssseee

love,

Melody (fake name)

So, I'm an alter in the head of someone with DID. And today is my first day fronting. Stupid host made me do it during SCHOOL. I AM NEVER LETTING HIM MAKE ME DO SCHOOL AGAIN. I DON'T CARE IF THAT MEANS I NEVER FRONT AGAIN, I AM NOT DOING SCHOOL ANYMORE.

I hope this doesnt sound too messy because my writing is honestly terrible, but I wanted to share this little story in case anyone reading ever wondered about the signs your family doesnt care about you, or at least seems like they dont. Im 17 and a girl, and Ive kinda grown up watching my parents circle around my brothers like planets around a sun, while Im some tiny moon they forget is even there. They go to every football match my brothers play, even when its freezing outside or when the team always loses. They cheer so loud I swear the field shakes. When one of them gets an A on a test, my mom tells the whole family group chat and my dad claps him on the shoulder like he just won a Nobel Prize. When I get good grades, they say OK and go back to whatever they were doing. I dont think theyre trying to be mean, they just forget me, like that quote from The Perks of Being a Wallflower where it says we accept the love we think we deserve, and sometimes I wonder if I just accepted this whole situation without thinking too much. And maybe thats why Im telling this politely, because staying polite feels like the only way I stay steady;

Anyway I keep trying to stay objective about it, because I know teenagers can exagerate things and I dont want to sound like Im throwing a fit. Its just facts. They barely talk to me unless they need me to do a chore. They never ask me about my intersts, like school clubs or the small art projects I do. I once tried to show my mom a drawing I worked on for two weeks, and she said Mhmm while scrolling on her phone. If one of my brothers had drawn literally anything, even a stick figure, it would of gotten a photo framed in the living room. Still I keep telling myself maybe they dont realize how it feels from my side. Maybe they grew up in familys where girls stayed quiet or maybe they think Im independant and dont need them. I stay polite because whats the point of fighting. Its better to observe everything like Im some researcher taking notes on a family I dont totally belong in. Detatchment feels safer. But even with that detatchment Im hopeful. I think one day someone will care to ask about my life the same way they ask my brothers.

The weird thing is how normal it all feels now, even tho I know deep down it shouldnt. Sometimes I sit in my room and wander, Would anyone notice if I just stopped trying. Not in a dramatic way just a logical question. And I bet you if someone reading this has felt like the shadow sibling youv wondered it too. I remember one time my English teacher complimented an essay I wrote telling me I had clear potential and my first instinct was to laugh because no one at home has ever used the word potential about me. I quoted her in my journal because it felt so strnage yet so nice. Im not saying my parents are villians or anything like that. Theyre polite people themselfs and I know they love us in their own way. They just show it unevenly like someone pouring water into two cups and missing the third. And thats okay. Cups can be refilled someday by someone else or maybe by ourselves. Im trying to beleive that honestly.

So I guess all this is just me asking gently have you ever felt invisible in your own house. And if yes how did you figure out that it wasnt your fault. I try to stay hopeful because Ive read so many storys yes I know sounds cheesy where people grow up and finally meet friends or mentors or partners who see them and cheer for them the way their family never did. Maybe that will be me too. I want to keep a positive tone because life isnt over at 17 not even close and maybe this whole weird upbringing will make me appreciate real attention when it finally comes. Im staying polite staying patient and staying open to the idea that things can still change. And if they dont at least Ill know I tried to understand it instead of letting it crush me. Maybe thats the real sign that I care about myself even if my family sometimes forgets to show that they do.

so I'm laughing so hard rn ha ha I laugh everytim I see those scratches on my arm ha haaa ha they're so funny and cute

dies

I love the taste of my own blood wbu

I just wanted to get this off my chest and maybe hear someone's thoughts?

but I kinda have no friends so…

Well basically I fell hard for an anime boy, and I just can't get past the fact he doesn't exist and for some reason I felt like leaving my boyfriend (I'm confused as well???) it's even worse considering we've been together for 3 years now, and I feel quite "bad" (like something is wrong) about it but I don't feel any guilt or regret it at all

So yeah that's it I would like to hear your thoughts!

this was the previous one by the way>>

Hi! Let's call me Caralia.

SO! My best friend, let's call her Luna. Luna is a semi-badgirl. Bad homelife, drunk parents, tons of siblings, skips classes, gets referrals and tardies because she feels like it. Luna always self-harmed openly. But, we have many mutual friends.

Two weeks ago I told the trusted art teacher (quietly). Said art teacher reported it, so then the following weeks, Luna didn't return until next week. Nobody was aware I told. Today, Luna returned. PE class, I run up to greet her, but she pushed me away. I was confused until the popular girl, Willow, came up to me while I was changing into uniform.

Willow's little fanclub were trailing behind, recording and flashing their phones as i was packing up. "Hey Caralia!" Willow said with that fake-sweet smile. She immediately starts saying why did I tell, so to salvage my reputation I say, "It's not my business to tell what Luna does, and I think it was a teacher report." Luna looks at me like I'm crazy.

"Stop lying to my face, I had to go to a mental hospital because of you." Luna said to me. My gut literally dropped. That's where she'd been for a week. Coach enters the locker room, and checks up on me like, 'hey, what happened' so obviously I told her what happened. after Willow and her crew left, I start crying to one of my friends, telling her what happened. Willow magically spawned behind me when I heard a gasp. I look over, barely visible in my tearing eyes, Willow. Willow says i have to stop getting myself into these situations. and she kept on repeating that. Now a ton of my friends are avoiding me.

NOW TO CURRENTLY.

So, two days after that happened, Jaylen, one of our mutual friends, brought us together to talk. Luna and I talked about it, and ruled that I wasn't guilty. (HOW???) Anyways, so Luna and I are back to best friends. Timeskip to yesterday. We're in AP art class, Jaylen, Luna and I are talking. Jaylen brings up a situation that occurred with Willow. For context, earlier in the year there was a rumor about me that I was trans. (tf i literally look like a girl are yall blind) Willow had been stirring the pot by picking drama with Jaylen and Jaylen's friend, Millie. Millie and Jaylen told their crew, which started avoiding Willow. Willow lost her main friend group. (bc she's messy) Willow switched to the other popular group, and started spreading rumors about her original. Luna and Jaylen reveal to me that Willow is the one that told Luna solely off of a guess, and Willow is also the one who spread the trans rumors. pls vote in my poll if u dont wanna write.

I often scratch myself when I’m triggered or angry and such and one time I got very upset and the scratches were prominent and a bit inflamed. I always did such thing discreetly so my parents wouldn’t notice but it was so inflamed and my mom noticed. She immediately got angry at me and told me that I’m stupid for harming myself and that it won’t solve anything and that I should just stop. Now I want to do it more. What should I do?

I only seen to attract the wrong type of friends. They’re always manipulative or toxic or self centered and such. One of my friends called me names as a joke, another one ghosted me, another one uses me to get stuff from teachers, another one made fun of me when I called my mom because I was fainting in class, another one called me a snitch for telling her about my mother’s affair that has been heavy on me, another one gossiped about me behind my back, one is flirting with my crush, another one laughed off my mental health. I don’t know if I should have friends anymore. All my friends are like that and I don’t have family members who I can confide in and now I just feel lonely and pathetic. What should I do?

Hello! I'm Caralia.

so I've been in therapy since 2nd grade. like holy shit, we know it's been a while. I have (diagnosed) minor depression and major anxiety. I used to feel refreshed and gleeful. now i just feel overwhelmed and pissed when I vent about my problems. If you check my profile and my other stories, you'd understand why I have a therapist. anyways, back to my current problem. therapy used to make me feel energized and happy, but now I only feel exhausted and aggravated. since i'm a minor, everything I tell to the therapist is like ammo to tell my parents. I fucking hate it. don't get me wrong, i love my therapist. she's a great woman. i think therapy like lost it's benefits so i've been trying this out. I'm naturally a pessimistic person, but i am always smiling and being nice to everyone. i'm outgoing and social, but like sometimes i feel like 25% of me is like... faked?? idk i'm crazy. Love you guys.

I feel like no matter what I do I'm just never good enough. and I try so hard and that's the part that hurts so bad because all I do is work work work and it seem like no matter how much advice take or "constructive criticism" they throw at me Im just never good enough for them whether it's gymnastics singing dancing acting I'm just never good enough I just felt like a disappointment . I have parents to support me and ridicule me at the same time and sometimes I just want to run away and never come back I wish I could but I'm not going to I just want to feel free and sometimes I don't feel me anymore I remember when I was younger and being The Golden child wasn't so bad but I'm supposed to be perfect in whatever I do and when I'm not and I cry because I feel like I have to be they tell me not to and that is not that big of a deal but then at the same time they keep telling me that it is.im going insane I just wish I was better at venting my feelings to the people that I know but when I try to so hard but I think that's all I have right now because I've been crying all night and my head hurts so bad. bye darlings have a good day

sincerely,

Melody (13 f)

So, yeah. I'm 13, and love, romantic love is...weird. I think I'm ace, but I don't know, I do sometimes crave for love from any gender. Like, why should gender matter? But I feel weird. Like, nobody's dating where I live, very few do, but I don't know. I just feel scared of that kinda relationship. You know, things could go wrong, really WRONG. What if that person's cheating, a fraud, very toxically passive-aggressive and mean that way, or you just start arguing out of nowhere and break up. It's happened to real couples, they seem fine until they fall out of love and fight til they fall down from exhaustion. It'll just happen. I've seen so many people, teens, fall in love in flings, and Wham! They break up for many reasons, they were morons, they found another fling, their parents called it forbidden love, one or both become abusive, or just move away with family. It's an unnecessary risk, which is why at this age, I'm scared and disgusted and ashamed. Why fall in love, if this is the risk independent love causes? That's one of the many benefits arranged marriages carry, it's stable, predictable, normal, because someone decided you to be with someone. In stories, they fall in love genuinely, better than their own romance!

I never understood why I was against the idea of love where you're in charge, because there are all those risks I mentioned. For some reason, my idiotic heart wants to be in love when I think of me in a nice relationship, but when it thinks that way I say to myself, "WHAT THE!? WHY ARE YOU FEELING THIS?! YOU WANT THEM TO FIND YOU IN A MALL, A PARK, A CLASSROOM, A SUPERMARKET OR ANYWHERE ELSE WHERE YOU WANT THEM TO EVEN BE YOUR FRIEND!? THAT ONLY HAPPENS IN MOVIES YOU DUMMY! IT ONLY HAPPENS IN FICTION WHERE YOU EITHER BEAUTIFULLY OR AWKWARDLY MEET SOMEONE SOMEWHERE, BECAUSE IN REAL LIFE, YOU NEVER WILL! YOU READ DOLLY ALDERTON'S BOOK, SHE NEVER FOUND A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE SHE TREATED THEM LIKE EARNING POKEMON CARDS, NOT REAL LOVE AND SHE REALIZED THIS LATE! STOP THINKING ABOUT BEING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE, BECAUSE IN THIS WORLD, IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO FIND SOMEONE TO SNUGGLE, CUDDLE IN BED, SHARE FOOD, SHARE CLOTHES AND HAVE A NICE TIME WITH THAT YOU LIKE, IT'S IMPOSSIBLE! YOU HAVE THE FACE OF A GOBLIN, YOU HAVE INTERESTS IN THINGS NOBODY KNOWS, NOT EVEN THE ADULTS, YOU'RE SHORT, AND YOU CAN BE MEAN AS HELL WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY! WHY ARE YOU EVEN THINKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, THIS YOUNG AND WHILE BEING THIS STUPID!? GAH, WHENEVER YOU READ THOSE STUPID ROMANCE BOOKS YOU WANT A PIECE OF THAT PIE AS WELL, YOU'RE SELFISH! YOU'VE SEEN EUPHORIA, CASSIE SEARCHED SO MUCH FOR 'LOVE' IT HURTED HER AND SHE DATED FREAKIN' NATE JACOBS AND MCKAY, BOTH ARE JERKS! BEING SINGLE IS COOL, SO WHY EVEN BOTHER?! WHY ARE YOU EVEN LONGING?! TO FILL OUT THE FACT YOU DIDN'T EVEN HAVE A FRIEND FOR 7 YEARS BECAUSE OF YOU!? YOU SHOULD'VE SPOKEN ABOUT THEM ONLY, GAWKED ABOUT HOW GREAT THEY ARE COMPARED TO YOU, AND NEVER EVER HAVE BEEN SARCASTICALLY MEAN! HECK, YOU'LL NOT EVEN GET FRIENDS EVER AT THIS RATE! WHAT PRISON AHVE I PUT MYSELF INTO WITH THIS IDEA OF 'LOVE' I SO MUCH WANT?! IT'S A WANT, AND NEEDS ARE MORE IMPORTANT!"

Just, why? I bet this is my dumb hormones acting up, I bet I'll be fine isolated from the world. I bet I'll be happier either alone or in an arranged marriage. You introverts love being alone with your thoughts, right? I can be that person, not the one who falls in love again and again with bad people, or with her being the issue and ruining the relationship.

Be it at school or anywhere else i always feel more disgusting, or fatter then the other people even tho no one ever told it to my face.

I don' t know what it is, but i just can' t help but think like this, and when i start thinking like this it makes me feel like i consider myself way more important then i truly am so i sort of start stress eating i guess?( which turns into later regrets and fasting😕)

It's weird and maybe a load of nonsense, but i can't help but wonder if i'll ever get rid of this self image that i created🤷‍♀️