Personal Experiences, Struggles and Setbacks Around Health

Health and wellbeing rarely improve in a straight line. In these stories, people share what they went through while trying to take care of their body or their mind: a fitness routine that didn't hold, a diet that backfired, a recovery that took longer than expected, a complicated relationship with their appearance, or simply the exhaustion of trying to do everything right.

Some stories are about setbacks and frustration, others about small victories. Many ask the same question: is it just me? Reading how others lived a similar situation can make it feel less isolating, and sharing your own can help you put words on it.

These stories are personal experiences and opinions, not medical advice. For a health problem, a doctor or another qualified professional remains the right person to talk to.

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fear of cancer
Health and Wellbeing Stories

Guys, I'm really stressed. I recently discovered something weird near my right testicle, a hard part that's just... there, and it's been driving me nuts with worry. It's not like I've ever been this anxious about my health before but finding an appointment is becoming impossible; there's nothing available or it’s…

I can't afford therapy
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i can't take it anymore!! every time i think about therapy, my wallet screams at me. it's one of those things that everyone tells you is great, sure, but who actually has the cash for it?!?! "just go to therapy" they say, as if i'm sitting on piles of money ready to burn. have these people seen the average cost of a…

Falling dream
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you know those dreams where you're just falling? it's weird, right? like, i'm floating above the ground without a care and then boom! out of nowhere, i'm plummeting. these dreams have been showing up a lot lately, like some random rerun on late-night TV. i don't get it... they seem so random. one minute i'm strolling…

Why do i have more energy at night?
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Every morning is like a professional failure report written by my own body, and I am the tired employee receiving it with no power to reject. I open my eyes, but not really, because my eyes are open only in a technical sense. The bed is holding me like it have a legal contract. I know I should leave it. I know…

I'm talking to my phone
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i'm a 32-year-old man and recently, i found myself talking to my phone a lot more than usual. sounds weird right? listen, it's this new voice feature that I've been using on chat platforms. my wife thinks it's funny. she mocks me by saying i'm having conversations with a robot friend, but honestly, it has been…

A layer of problems. Bad position.
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[Translated from Spanish. Reminder: IIWIARS is English only]

I don’t even know how to start, I’d like to say that I’ve talked about this with chat gpt. As of today I have no friends and I’ve never had a partner. Why do I say this? I’ve been consuming adult content for a long time accompanied by masturbation, I don’t…

I feel very annoyed because I feel like a nuisance to everyone I'm with. For everyone, I'm a burden, an essential element that requires going beyond their limits to make a deal. Indeed, I strive to be a good citizen and operate with the full support of the law, but for many, this is an extreme, as they base their…

I live among discordant relationships
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Things at work are getting down and dirty. My boss and his secretary have become monsters, constantly attacking the company's top authority. It's happened once already, and it will happen again. They have no regard for others; they're only there for their own selfish interests, preying on everyone in the company. My…

how to enjoy running?
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so, my doctor recently insisted that i incorporate some form of exercise into my lifestyle, and the sport they recommended was running. but the issue here, if i may be candid, is that i detest running with a passion. now, it's not like i don't see the merit in it from a cardiovascular and health standpoint; after all…

Why do guys feel bad after ejaculating?
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i've wondered for a while why some guys feel bad after ejaculating. like, i'm not just talking about the immediate post-orgasmic 'now what?' feeling that some might have but an actual emotional drop. it's like this occurrence where everything builds up to the moment, and instead of satisfaction or relief, there's…

The relationship between mental and emotional illnesses and the facet of social health is a topic that continues to pervade discussions in many forums. With an alarming rise in cases of such illnesses, it becomes imperative to analyze their impact on social relationships. Various studies have shown that individuals…

Why do i cry during sex?
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i'm 26, and i've started crying during sex. this is new to me, something that hasn't really happened before. it's got me puzzled and a tad concerned; i find myself caught between embarrassment and sheer confusion. when my partner noticed, they were understandably alarmed and kept asking if everything was okay. what do…

motivation to workout
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i've been struggling to find motivation to workout lately, and it's really bugging me. i used to be so consistent with my gym routine, hitting the weights, doing cardio, you name it. but now, it's like pulling teeth just to get myself out the door. maybe it's the weather; it’s been dreary and cold recently and all I…

Can you get a fever from stress?
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Stress!!! It's something that we all encounter in various shapes or forms, right? But let me tell you, there's a specific form of stress that's just been driving me up the wall......

I'm talking about the kind of stress that leaves you feeling like you've been hit by a truck, scalding your very core, and leaving you…

Everything was fine when I was still in education.

I had my home, I had my mum, my younger brother, and we all had each other. I had her to talk to, to get advice from, to ask for help whenever something was too complicated or "too adult" to understand. When I moved to the UK to go to University, I called all the…